In the early years of our marriage, meaning, in the last century, my husband used to help me with saree pleats if the saree was slippery or cotton. Really speaking, not much help or maybe I didn't tell him what to do clearly. When the kids came along and were small, I was happy if he could just keep them away for 15 min while I get dressed. Now, the kids are older, and I am happy if he keeps me and kids waiting less than 15 minutes in the car as he goes to the bathroom one more time or checks something online before we go out. I mostly switch on the car, and play soothing songs.
I still need his help with bracelets that come with intricate clasps. Thank God for these things, as they, well, bring us "closer", esp. if he doesn't have his glasses on.
-Rihana