Thank you all

Hi Nandshyam,Priya_Mommy,SBRose,Bindu_Thomas,armummy, malar_arasi,Venonimiss,diya123,Drpreethis
I want to thank you all earnestly for having taken ur time to help me out.Especially Drpreethis and Nandashyam.
While reading ur messages I felt like I was looking at a mirror..To be frank I led myself get tortured coz of not being
able to work.There was not a single day when my Hubby mentioned that I was not working to me..but still I imagined he hated me for not being
productive..all these days i did not look at my babies wonderful face and feel happy from heart...I was always troubled...
It was only my decision to travel by BMTC for 3 hrs a day but theres no other way..The route and timings are totally
different that even if he wanted to help me..he cudnt have...
Coming to the other working ladies that I mentioned...My husband confessed that since he is their manager..and he has
to make them meet the dead lines..he makes them work really hard stay late and start early...and in a way to make their life little easier he
wanted to help them out by car pooling with them..and there was never any intention behind it.He wud have done this even if they were guys...I totally trust him..
Nandshyam u totally read my inner mind..I was actually comparing myself to these ladies and putting myself down..
Actually i did not fight nor there was any finger pointing....but u were right i did not express my feelings in a right decent manner...it was more of a cry baby thing..
That seem to have pissed him of totally...I was so self centered that i never thot how he wud have ever felt abt it..
I never knew when I had turned into a monster like this..Iam ashamed for holding a grudge against those women for nothing..
After going thru other people's posts i feel mine is such a trivial issue..As all of u have stated I want to retstart my life...go for a total makeover..i want to turn into a normal human and be able to look around the goodness around me..
I thank you all again for ur kind and loving words and promise to lead a happy life..

Attagirl !! Happy to hear

Hope you finish of your studies soon and achieve whatever you dream off !!

Way to go girl .. Good you looked at yourself here. When we want things to change around us.. we need to start from us.. from within !
When we find things changed around us .. we should first look at whether it started from us .. So all is well that ends well.. So glad that your issue is almost solved.. Best Luck and take care !!

It feels good when ladies get back with posts saying their problem could ' really ' be tackled with suggestions given by all here in IL ..

This is the second such post isnt, Nandhu ??

Originally Posted by Drpreethis

It feels good when ladies get back with posts saying their problem could ' really ' be tackled with suggestions given by all here in IL ..

This is the second such post isnt, Nandhu ??

yep...

we will happy to hear that, right...

Great Majime,
Lovely to know that things are back on track..... Keep ur attention on urself and others around u will do the same( keep their attention on u as well --- this goes for ur hubby particularly) Infact he will be proud to flaunt u around once he sees u as a confident lady.... go for it....

All the best...