Husband to share Apartment with another woman

Hi Ladies,

I have a question bogging my mind and i can't seem to decide whether i am thinking in the right way.Ok i am living in another city because of my job in a different state for a few months.So my husband is living all alone.
Now another married lady has come to the city my husband is working and she can't find an apartment,so she asked my husband is she can stay along with him.When my husband asked me abt this,i was ok,i only thought he will have some home made food etc.But now i do not know i started thinking probably it was not a good idea.She still has not moved in.Am i thinking too negatively ??I can't decide.My husband will go with my decision for sure though.

Dear Kodavati,
My answer would be no..Call it narrow minded or possessiveness..Why dig a grave for ourselves...?

I would say No too

Better no now than sorry later.

I would say NO... It's better to say no now than regret about it later.

No way - I'm far too old-fashioned about things like this. If you are at all uncomfortable about this then you should stop it NOW.

Vanathi.

No Way! It is better if he has to survive on sandwiches than open up unknown territories!

You can help her all you want, when you are physically there. Then she coming and staying with you guys is fine.

But this... Thats insanity act.

A big NO

I am surprised the lady's husband is ok with this.. LOL LOL

Hi Kodavati,

A very big NO as all the other ladies said !! I totally agree with all the points put forth by them...it is better to be careful now than repent later !!

As Usha neatly pointed out, just for the sake of food, why pave way for unnecessary complications?!

hi kodavati,

watz genuine or how others would react is not important now. If @ all you have a inconveninece in them staying together mentally then please keep a full stop for it. If at all you accept to this inspite of your ill feeling about it then you cannot lead a peaceful life miles apart. Then even when things are ok or normal you may try to find out problems and keep nagging him or worrying alone. Nothing is late, speak out to ur husband and tell him u'r not ok with this and try to keep a big full stop.