Husband to share Apartment with another woman

Hi ! Kodavati,

While I truly admire your unselfish thought that your husband can have home cooked food please heed all of us who have responded here : the answer is

No No No.... a million, billion, trillion , times !!!

As others have wriiten in earlier it is fine if you are around.
Please do not give room to regret later.

When I first read your post I could not believe what you wrote, I thought that it was a joke. When two people start to live under a single roof there are lots of opportunities for things to go wrong (It does not matter if your husband is good or the other lady is good). Both of them have to be constantly on the edge to make sure that they are within their limits and in a situation like this it is practically impossible. From a guys point of view it is better not to put oneself in that position and test your limits, so the bottom-line is to just avoid creating an environment where there are lots of opportunity for failure.


P.S: Like to know what your final decision was.

As everyone says, NO.

You should be happy that your hubby asked your view for this...God forbid...there are many men in this world who would not even care to ask the wife.

So to conclude, NO.

Hi ,
Is it possible for him to find some family who will be able to accomodate the other lady.
What is the worst case if your husband cannot accomodate her ?
How comfortable are you to leave the house the new person so your husband can sleep in some friends house....


Thanks
Mangai

My anwer would be no.

There are lots of hotels around. Even one can rent furnished appartments.

But it is up to you. All the best.

Simple answer NO No No at any cost NO.

I am surprised at the audacity of the woman to make such a proposal and of your husband in asking you the same.If they insist further and make you feel like you are a villain in not helping out a helpless woman get your families involved.But dont accept this and as someone mentioned you will be digging your own grave for sure.

suji

PLZ No,

I literally Beg u NO.

Surely a big NO according to me too.

No matter what he says, you have to not let this happen (that is if you too agree that it should be a No). You can try to help the lady by finding her another appt etc. But anything more than that is surely something that may yield uncertain (and may be unwanted) results.

As an aside, ALWAYS trust your gut. Never think you are being too narrow-minded or too mean or that people may see you as a selfish person. Your gut (which is your inner voice) is usually right. This has always been my experience. So trust your gut.

Goold luck.
SS

I agree with what everyone else said, I also would say NO.

no no no no no no no never do that mistake even if you think your husband is modern day lord rama.