thought of wedding day

Hi ladies, today i heard the song that i walked down the aisle to..I thought of what a young nieve woman i was as i married my husband. There was no way that i could;ve predicted my life years later with this man. I was so excited and ready the day i got married, i really had no idea what a DIL's life could be! my sister has been happliy married for 10 years more than me, and of course i thought i would have a simliar life! But of course we are not all dealt the same cards in life. Just wanted to know what reminds you of your wedding day? any thoughts?

sash

Dear Sashie

The lines which my husband told before our marriage "Marriage is a stake" and the thoughts which he shared with me from the book "Men are from Mars Women are from Venus" are the ones that I am reminded of on my wedding day. I feel so happy and used to think of myself how was I on the day of wedding with blush, struggling in the madisaar (which was totally new then) and the "nalangu" which my husband said he does not want it however he only enjoyed the "nalangu" part more than anybody that was obvious with his wide grin. I used to feel extremely senti that day and even this year I had been to Mumbai while my husband made it a point to join me on our "day" and travelled all the way from Chennai just to stay in Mumbai for 2 days.. I love my husband.. thats the thought I have..

Feelings go on and on and I rather stop here.. Thanx yaar.. I wish you too a happy wonderful life with your husband.. best wishes..

Luv
Lakshmi

Originally Posted by sashie

Hi ladies, today i heard the song that i walked down the aisle to..I thought of what a young nieve woman i was as i married my husband. There was no way that i could;ve predicted my life years later with this man. I was so excited and ready the day i got married, i really had no idea what a DIL's life could be! my sister has been happliy married for 10 years more than me, and of course i thought i would have a simliar life! But of course we are not all dealt the same cards in life. Just wanted to know what reminds you of your wedding day? any thoughts?

sash

I am reminded of my husband's drop dead gorgeous looks. I was so happy to see him being my Man. I was over the top. And His family was all I could ask in In-laws. Progressive, warm and kind hearted. For me they completed my world. And Thats what comes to my mind when I think of my wedding day.

Then there was one incident where after the "Garland exchange " ceremony , everyone was relaxed , enjoying and just chillling out. Photo grapher came and asked to pose for pictures. He took us to little less crowded corner in lawn. And my husband's friends were teasing us all the way. Then suddenly in one pose, photogrpaher made us stand very close. I could feel his shoulder and rest of body next to me. Until then I was all happy, suddenly it dawned on me..This is my "Husband".. Oh my!! I had most confusing reaction in my life. I was happy, shy and didnt know where to hide myself.

That one reaction, is what summarised my wedding day for me.. I can never forget it in my life.

Ria

My wedding day, is something my husband laughs about, and I would like to forget about. The beautician my mum fixed made me look like a white china doll. I was so madeup with the heavy foundation and makeup.

I am a person, who rely on natural beauty, something my hubby loves about me.

When I entered the temple, my husband's romantic look changed to a shock. These were his exact words, "Chellam, they made a mess out of you! Are you Uma? Seems like I am marrying someone else." I was so pissed.

I called my mum and vented my frustration. My mum and my aunts said, this is the appropriate look for the picture. Gosh!! I was whinning the entire wedding but my hubby kept cooling me by coming up with jokes and teasing other people, so that I will be in my elements.

That evening was our reception, she asked me to get to the same beautician place for a change over, and I escaped and did my own makeup and dressup in my cousin's place. My hubby was pleased to see me finally with my real face and we looked amazing. Cause I was really smiling and was so comfortable.


Recently when I visited my parents, I couldn't help but stare at my wedding picture and my mum for ruining the day I dreamt about for years.

Hi ..,
This is so exciting to share about the marriage Day...which is the most important day in everybody's life..!!
On my wedding Day i felt i was the queen for the day..!! i was blushing with shy n ofcourse bit tensed ...I too have the a mixed feeling while the photographer was taking the snaps...i first felt that oh...my god..some guy is holding me on my shoulders..but sooner i realised yeah my DH...oh ok...and i got used to...!!
but my wedding snaps will make me feel the situational feelings that i was on that day..!!

Hi ..,
This is so exciting to share about the marriage Day...which is the most important day in everybody's life..!!
On my wedding Day i felt i was the queen for the day..!! i was blushing with shy n ofcourse bit tensed ...I too have the a mixed feeling while the photographer was taking the snaps...i first felt that oh...my god..some guy is holding me on my shoulders..but sooner i realised yeah my DH...oh ok...and i got used to...!!
but my wedding snaps will make me feel the situational feelings that i was on that day..!!

Hi All,
Wow.....so many nice responses...indeed, the wedding day is unforgetable and I can still remember all the little details of that day.....
I was a little tensed.....don't have any reason for it.....but I had butterflies in my stomach.....though I was marrying my DH after 21/2 years of courtship, but I didn't wanted to leave my parents.....so this kind of mixed feeling were there in my mind.
And as Uma said abt the makeup or made up thing, it has also happened to me...my mom always wanted me to look heavenly.....so she and my make up lady has tried their best.....and the worst happened as I am fair and they put too much foundation on me and I ended up looking white.....pale......and all the pink/red patches every where.....
My husband also said the same to me that why didn't I came naturally and he could not recognise me at all with all those done-ups......
But yeah, I was happy all the way through reception....and not shy at all......even consoled my mom who was crying during bidaii......
It was good remembering that day..........

Hi Meeta, in our case the makeup artist was the villan!

Originally Posted by umaraj23

Hi Meeta, in our case the makeup artist was the villan!

Hi Uma,
Yeah......but unintentionally........and the funny part is that after some days of marriage, she called me to know the response of everyone abt my make/made up.............I was dumb on her question as what to say.......as I never wanted her to repeat the same with other would be brides.......
Thanks for reading.....

Hi Sashie..

I see many people complained about the make up disaster on their wedding day.. I should say I had a narrow escape.. because the make up disaster happened a little early in our engagement..

the make-up lady put so much of foundation and a bright lip stick.. I could not recognize my self in the engagement photos.. So I decided and changed the make up person for the wedding...And I told her clearly I dont want make up to transform me into a totally different person.,.thank god she understood.. Even today when I see my engagement & wedding picture.. they are sooooo different..

On the wedding day.. I remember I felt so good to be the center of attraction
But still I could not bear the thought of leaving my parents and my home of so many years...
I remember how much I cried . I had known my husband for 2 years before our marriage.. so the transition was little easy...

Even today I love to watch our wedding photo album and video.. But somehow my husband never likes it...he says its boring....
I wonder if all husbands think like that