re:husband

Hi ladies, regarding huband and his il';s(my parents), it's true that there is a distance, but i think in my case its more, that his parents would not like it if he talked alot/or became close with anyone in my family, esp my parents. I think that my Il's want to be the only thing in my DH's mind, and that;s how he has been brought up. My sister's DH is very close with my entire family, including my parents, bcoz he was brought up very differnetly, and taught to respect everyone, including wife's family. i really wish my DH was more like my sis;s Dh in that way. ALso when there are any problems
(marriage/work etc) my Dh just wants to run home to his parents, even last night he had a bad day at work, and he told me he wants to move back home! I think that my IL"S made sure to train him, to always think of them annd his sis first, no matter who else is in his life. just my thoughts!
jooti