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    Default do we lose our freedom after marriage ?

    Dear Friends
    Do we enjoy full freedom, as we use to enjoy before marriage, even after marriage ?
    Would like to have your suggestions and views in this regard.
    Hope you will pour in your ideas here.


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    Default Re: do we lose our freedom after marriage ?

    Yes, Infact i enjoy more freedom after marriage than before.

    I think men loose their freedom after marriage and women gain it

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    Default Re: do we lose our freedom after marriage ?

    thank you archana
    but i came across some women who complain that they lost their freedom after marriage. is this true?


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    Default Re: do we lose our freedom after marriage ?

    My case is opposite.I used to have full freedom at my parents place.But my husband personality and the way he raised is far different from me.I am getting better now but my husband do object in lot of things.Actually he supress other people openions and dominate.
    So this case will be different for each individual.

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    Default Re: do we lose our freedom after marriage ?

    I am one of the lucky one who had freedom before marriage and after marriage also. I havent lived with ILs to say whether they give me enough liberties, but my husband gives and takes a lot of freedom as well. Thats more than enough for me Freedom to choose what I wear, eat and make friends as per my choice.

    In my opinion, giving freedom only makes people more responsible.


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    Default Re: do we lose our freedom after marriage ?

    I have lots of freedom after marriage in our house. But when we go to inlaws its different story.
    But I hate the responsibility that comes after marriage . I wish we are kids tension free. I am married for 7 years still finding it very difficult to adjust.....


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    Default Re: do we lose our freedom after marriage ?

    i enjoy more freedom after marriage than before. btw i have healthy relationship with inlaws. my parents were strict and my fil always encouraged me to go outside and learn new things. i am so lucky to have family members like that including my dh.

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    Default Re: do we lose our freedom after marriage ?

    thank you renu and narra for sharing your views


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    Default Re: do we lose our freedom after marriage ?

    It all depends on DH n in-laws. In my point of view working women's get bit more freedom compared to home makers.


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    Default Re: do we lose our freedom after marriage ?

    Quote Originally Posted by archana2008 View Post
    Yes, Infact i enjoy more freedom after marriage than before.

    I think men loose their freedom after marriage and women gain it

    Yes! Unfortunately, yes!


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