Thank you so much savitha , sathya ,fudge and spiderman.Thank you for ur guidance.When I say the two letter word NO to my husband no matter how much ever I am polite and soft he will say the same two letter words to me a BIG NO.The reason he gives is they are old people its hard to change them if we live alone we will get it to unnecessary gosspis so he says instead of trying to change their attitude you better dont mind them Ladies if it is for couple of months then its fine but for whole lifeeee

My husband is searching for a job in Banglore even though I want to be in chennai(Where I was born and brought up) I said immediate yes to my DH because my finlaw is Asmatic so he can't cope up with Blore climate atleast in winter.I know I sound so Mean

But I guess there is no way out