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I have married for one year.I have been noticing his habit to complain about me to his mother.When he does that,she naturally turns on me and is protective of her son.Few days after our marriage,we had an argument and he went and told MIL,she came and both she and my husband cornered me and told hurtful things about my family and me and grilled me for three hours.
Later I told him that marraige is between us and things need to be resolved between us.When i told him this,he spat out to me that I was jealous about his relationship with his mother and threw things around the house.
Instead of trying to help us become cordial with each other,he does this.I am tired of this and also having to listen to MIL scold me over the phone.They dont seem to respect my wishes,just the other day both mother and son talked on phone with me also at other end of the phone, about his exgirlfriend.How she was still in contact with his ex and that he should also keep in touch.It crushes me.
I am not liking this but i dont know how to handle this.