Is your husband very hyperactive? How does it affect your marriage?

As adult, do you/your husband have hyperactivity?

• having a short attention span and being easily distracted
• making careless mistakes
• very lazy after work and does not help with chores
• appearing forgetful or losing things
• being unable to stick at tasks that are boring
• does not listen well or pay attention to what you are saying.
• constantly changing activity or task
• being unable to concentrate on tasks

If so how does it affect your marriage. Does it make you frustrated? How do you cope?

 

Highly relevant actually! I saw it within the first week that it came out. I am exactly like that character. Unless something is interesting I can't remember much.

Everybody around me thinks I am awesome fun because I am hyper. But my forgetful nature and hyper excitement will cause issues/annoyance to my future spouse. I don't want her to come to this forum and complain about me. I have infinite energy and I am always on the go.

I am good at work though because I am passionate about it. But I really can't do boring things and I procrastinate a LOT.

Wondering if anybody else is in the same boat. If so, how do you deal with it. I don't want to spoil someone's life :drowning

 

Are you hijacking the thread into a discussion about the movie. :confused2:

On a more serious note. I am suffering quite a bit. There is 0 information about being hyper/lack of focus/easy distractibility in india. I have been in the US but did not seriously try the medication route while I was there. I came back here to start a company but everyone here takes too much time to do things and I am getting impatient and frustrated.

Wondering if there is a specialist dealing with being adult attention deficit in India. Otherwise I have to decide and go back to US just to take care of this issue.