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  1. Jul 31, 2015 #1
    krishnendu

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    Hi!

    I been thinking of a divorce since many years , but never got ht courage to do it.
    I am in a very toxic,abusive relationship which makes me copromise and settle for less.I have a daughter and jobless.What and who will support me ,i don't know?
    My family doesn't want be back with them since i have two unmarried siblings.I understand my parent's situation.My father asked me to stop tolerating everything and get back home.BUt i am weak and very sensitive.what to do?
     
    krishnendu, Jul 31, 2015
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  2. Jul 31, 2015 #2
    Grihani

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    Find a job first...very very important to be financially independent. Does not matter what job it is, start earning. Gives you a lot of confidence to take decisions.
     
    Grihani, Jul 31, 2015
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  3. Aug 2, 2015 #3
    guesshoo

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    You have your dad on your side. So, be brave. If you feel you are sensitive, grow a thick skin... Work on it.

    Counselling might help you figure out how to turn things around or whether to leave the abusive marriage. Good luck.
     
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  4. Aug 2, 2015 #4
    vaidehi71

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    Hi,
    You need to be financially independent which will give you all the strength to deal with other issues in your marriage. First get a job and then other things you will be able to decide.
     
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