An Update and Thanks _ I have moved on in Life from control freak guy

Hello Friends,

Few years ago i posted my issues here and had wonderful support - you folks were the only ones I could speak to then. Here is an update who vaguely remember me and I would like to thank you all for hearing to me when I needed...

http://www.indusladies.com/forums/married-life/102702-some-dont-change-my-dh.html

http://www.indusladies.com/forums/married-life/116410-am-i-over-reacting.html

some of my previous thread - as am updating my status after many yrs.

I always said my life issue is his anger..below is the reason he masked himself with Anger

2 yrs ago accidentally found H having online adult chats with various women across countries. Not one two but many of them.. he has even met them in person. After we moved to US he has started hooking up with hookers chatting online. it came as a complete shock and I read thru all those chats that had happend for years even before and after our marriage..

I spoke to him and asked him why he gave me this tuff deal and he didnt expect me to speak and thought i would jump all over make rukkus. Long story short he apologized and said he wants this family and he would be sincere. Got checked for STD and both were fine.

I was working and life was busy and an year later again I asked him out of some hint about some missing stuff - he managed and then he confussed he went to a hooker. I was done i said u r not gonna change again same saga.. that it would be the last chance.. He does is bcas i fight with him alot.. (really)... 2nd chance (note between first and 2nd time i never asked him if he was f*K*ng around or anything)

Life moved very fast and we visited india there were fights on pity issues he created when i thought life was good and later i find from his call logs that he was in touch with someone in india continuously when i asked he said i was stupid and finding faults always.. Later confessed he was out with women again.. (i was in india on extended vacation while he had gone back to US)

Why was i still having patience.. bcas I thought there is a kid not to jump out of marriage.. and see if i could fix it..

He was going thru depressssion for 2 months as he was alone in US itseems so took him to psylogist in india and in US for a week.. but his stupidity increased so much that he was mentally torturing me ..he kept me like captive cutting all communication and we lived in a house where none can come even when we scream. when i cudnt take it anymore at some chance when i got a mobile phone of his, i called the cops while he was in his peak of madness.. they took him and i flew back to India with kid... parents who knew nothing were in shock.. i was all relaxed and have been relaxed.. he came after his case got over.. begged pleaded everyone to return... i didnt bother much abt him.. .I am happier than I was in the last decade. My family heard all crap they had never thought of a person can do about their Son In Law..

Have no regrets.. no crying sobbing... gave enough chances.. gave enough support.. but I cudnt change the dog's tail...

Found job now in india have a routine and plan to move out from parents to my own house in few months with kid.

Thats my Happily ever after - A New beginning