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New Changes in the New year for a better relationship....

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by breeze01, Dec 19, 2014.

  1. breeze01

    breeze01 Platinum IL'ite

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    As the new year is approaching few of us are busy making our new year resolutions... just a question popped in my mind.. what are the changes you going to make in your relationship (spouse) in the coming year thats going to make it better..as the days goes by from the time we married we learn lot of things one by one.. from the time i married i considered my husband as my friend and began to be more like friends.. but as the time went by being an Indian husband he accuse me of not giving him respect (as i said earlier i consider him to be more like friend than hubby) or his saying has no value (in every decision i ask his opinion,he says do as you like) which makes me hurts little so i want to change my behaviour in this matters....

    what changes you going to make??? what advices can you give to someone like me...
     
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    breeze01 Platinum IL'ite

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    no changes....????
     
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    Rise Platinum IL'ite

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    i guess all resolutions come to an end by jan 30 doh1
     
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    I want to learn to control my anger n not yell at my hubby n kids when I'm upset
     
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    Yea seems like that is the case...
     
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    breeze01 Platinum IL'ite

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    True....but we will start it again in other new year hahaha
     
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    I need to work on something similar like this..I don't want to shout at my kid.talk properly with my hubby....showing respect....These are main concerns...Cook something good for them most of the days...we live in joint family so don't don't et chance much to do some specials for them two...thatswhy..
     
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    I want to cultivate the habit to agree with disagreements friendssmiley. Fingers crossed, coz always my new year resolutions end up in a week. :drowning
     
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    Need to say this is a good thread. Few things which i want to do are

    Control my anger when hubby loses his temper, coz i feel this acts like fuel to fire. Just want to stop reacting n open my mouth. But i m finding this very difficult . No use arguing with an angry man.

    Don't take things too seriously, i mean my hubby. I stress unnecessarily when he is a bit angry, upset, etc.

    Stop worrying about future n live in the present.

    Praise him more often if he does something good.
     
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    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    I plan to get fitter.:queen
    And maybe spend less time on line.....:coffee
     
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