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Very weird situation.

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by BujjiDachi, Aug 22, 2014.

  1. BujjiDachi

    BujjiDachi New IL'ite

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    newly married (for four months now). Both of us, my hubby and me are working IT people. ours is a love marriage. he is sooo sweet. no complaints for that.

    we came to USA to study and fell in love. he is the best part of my life.

    point is my husband cuddles way too much in his sleep... my problem is i cannot sleep if even a finger laid on me. i know its weird.. i told him about it and he says i am not doing on purpose... i tend to move away and sleep in the corner but he finds his way back to cuddle me and sleep.

    my nights are getting worse and worse... due to this stress is bulding upp!!

    suggest something plz... does this even happen with anybodyy??
     
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  2. sugugiri2010

    sugugiri2010 Gold IL'ite

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    Hi

    Too odd to hear.... am not sure about any solution for this... u must either take another bed or adjust to it...
     
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    BujjiDachi New IL'ite

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    Taking another bed is way out of the question.
    i am not sure what to do.. putting on a hand while sleeping is bearable. but he cuddles so much, that i finally wake up from sleep.
     
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    god2014 Gold IL'ite

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    Tell him your issue, just don't let it disturb yourself and later feel stressed. Its b/w you both, so sweetly just tell him and get it solved.:cool2:
     
  5. BujjiDachi

    BujjiDachi New IL'ite

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    i spoke to him abt it earlier.. its like he doesnt do it solely on purpose.
    anywayssss :thankyou2:
     
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    Get him soft pillows/ soft toys which he can cuddle & hold and enjoy his sleep and let you enjoy yours too:p
     
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    BujjiDachi New IL'ite

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    wow this looks like a great ideaa.. will surely give it a try..!!friendssmiley
     
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    A big teddy bear would solve the issue !.. Let it be a surprise gift to your DH..
     
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