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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by ImagineSaranya, Aug 19, 2014.

  1. ImagineSaranya

    ImagineSaranya New IL'ite

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    My husband told me he likes watching lesbian videos and has fantasies about it.
    And then asked me if i have feelings for any women..?
    I said no. He said why not and kept repeating the same question. I asked him to stop.
    But im afraid he has weird intentions... what should i do?
     
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  2. littl

    littl Platinum IL'ite

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    Reveal his intentions in front of his and your parents, then he will never start such conversations. Some guys will not stop these kind of behaviors unless they know some one is watching or observing his behaviors from outside. t.c
     
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  3. ImagineSaranya

    ImagineSaranya New IL'ite

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    thanks for your concern. But i can never confront him in front of my parents or his! I like him very much.

    there's a catch. He asked me this only because i allow him to talk to me openly. We share a lot and do have fun n all. So i have no intentions of punishing him.
     
  4. Marun

    Marun Platinum IL'ite

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    Ouch! He is living in a fantasy world!

    Just talk to him and try to explain him saying that you are not interested in such conversations!
     
  5. littl

    littl Platinum IL'ite

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    So glad to know that you got solution by yourself. I guess your problem solved..! :)
     
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  6. littl

    littl Platinum IL'ite

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    OP is smart marun she got the solution now :)
     
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  7. ImagineSaranya

    ImagineSaranya New IL'ite

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    what is it!!
     
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    Marun Platinum IL'ite

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    I was wondering about that!

     
  9. sacredbell

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    What solution are you looking for? ...A third partner?...:) ..
    If you like him so much and enjoy such conversations, then what is your doubt ?..
     
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  10. Ragini25

    Ragini25 Platinum IL'ite

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    Friday! Yay! Oops
     
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