Is it a good sign???

it is normal to enjoy when you rarely get the chance, so bask in the sunshine while it lasts

 

Hi fellowblogger,

Who doesn't like to stay at his/her own house with his/her parents. The essence of an arrange marriage is nobody, for the whole of the life, is able to accept his/her in-laws, completely.

It's good that you're feeling happy and relaxed at your own house, with no rules and regulations, no one to keep a check and eye on you, no one to barge into your comforts and/or comment about it.

But, ma'am, everything, when experienced for a short span or term is good. Too long staying at your own house will start bothering you someday just like it bothers you when you're with your in-laws. Here, you mother is concerned about you, treats you like a princess, but all these things have their own time frame.

Everybody needs changes. It's similar to a situation where you don't like food cooked by your MIL, and miss the food of your mother. But, if you are compelled to eat daily food cooked by your mother, a time will come ( may be in a week or two ) when you would like to dine out.

Nature has its own way of balancing things up. For a time being you're enjoying this period. But, in sometime to come, your urge to return back to your husband and in-laws will increase too.


This is what I feel. May be I'm wrong. This is just a general perception. Following advises may vary.

 

Ha Ha Ha !!!
Thank You for all the lovely words. I am not a Psychologist by profession at all. I am...ummm...a.... Friend to you all, may be.

These things are very common you see. Nothing that I have said is unknown or new to you. It happens with all. Right ?

Anyways, enjoy your stay at your mother's house, but, don't forget to take care of your in-laws too. I am sure a wonderful bride/daughter like you can do it with no difficulty.

 

Your replies make us , feel you are a Clinical Psychologist cum Professional Counsellor !

 

Hi Sir,



Nothing like that. I am none of the above, trust me.

I give advises because I feel when a person is in a trouble or is hitting emotional bottoms, at that time, if someone could help him in any way possible, show him/her some hope, guide him/her to possible right or at the least just listen to his problem..... that would lessen his/her miseries and would give him/her a new hope & a new chance to rise up.


So, I want people to consider me as an anonymous friend and share with me anything, any secret, howsoever personal it is, without the fear of their identity getting disclosed.

Anyways, thanks alot darmesh for these compliments. They definitely help me to improve and advice better.

 

no matter how close a person to other but staying in own house gives a peace of mind and tension free.. there we can move any way and can do any thing and its a freedom .. spouse houses are always contains restrictions to follow so goood to take a break and enjoy also its enriches the energy back to life again .. same like getting holidays. for all ppl .. give some way and time to relax ..so all ppl should spend some time away from their spouses house and all husbands should allow their partner to stay their houses as well ...