Help in deciding please .

A good natured person who understands you at present, does not dig your past & takes care of your future ( your daughter's too)

The other things that you have mentioned will not stay with you throughout your life
All the best

 

none. i would go for someone who is able to understand, respect and appreciate me.
money will come and go, looks change with time and we grow too. Find someone who would make you a better person. Take your time to know each one and then decide.

 

Being bald for a man in late thirties or above, should not be deemed as a negative factor. The other factors assume more importance.

 

The perception is individual and personal. But, if I am in your place, I will ignore baldness. I will give importance to factors like, his overall nature, his temperament, whether he has habits like alcohol and smoking, whether his family background is okay, whether he has a stable income and whether his friends circle is good etc,

 

A better understanding about life is more important. Take more time to decide, make conversation with the guy for atleast 1-2 mth.

Qualities which I feel, u should consider is:

1. Reason for his second marriage, whether he is divorcee with/without kids, widow or single.

2. His family background.

3. What is that, he is looking for in this marriage?

4. The next main thing is, he should love your family, esp. willing to take care of u & u r daughter very much. There should be a good relationship between daughter & father after marriage. U r daughter should also feel comfortable with him.

Best of luck on u r re-marriage.

 

I would suggest you to chose some one who can be a good father for your kid than a life partner. He should have enough matured to deal with you kid build a healthy strong relation just like a father. You have to consider her mental situation too. 9 year old girl can easily understand everything and you must forsee how she will be going to react to her new father.. Sometimes it will be very tough for her to say her frnds that I got a new father..
So take your time. And be informed your kid about your thoughts and plans. Don't make it a surprise for her.

 

Dont give much importance to appearance. It is nothing when compared to a good heart. Do you understand? Now you have to consider about your daughter too... All the best...