Made for Each Other!!!

Editor's Note: Dear IL'ites, rajinitk4 has shared some wonderful facts on what makes a marriage stronger and is featured here. Please have a look and share it with your friends. rajinitk4, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us. It has been chosen as best of forums. Congratulations!

------------------


Friends this is in response to the "What Wives Can Do For a Strong Marriage"

Marriage is a unison of two totally different souls in to one body. The couple may have totally different tastes, different circumstances of growing up. To have a Strong marriage both have to ensure to bring balance of each others traits.

Hindu wedding rituals and 7 marriage vows itself specify what the couple has to do for a strong marriage.
1. Share the household responsibilities(The lady may be home maker or working) the responsibilities have to be shared by both
2. Acquire happiness through mutual love, respect and trust
3. Raise strong, virtuous and courageous children
4. Stay best friends in this lifelong wedlock
5. Wife has to become a minister when coming to give advice to husband. Wife has to understand the situation and give timely unbiased and apt advice.
6. Wife has to understand husbands needs like a mother and provide timely services.
7. Wife needs to have good sense of humor to cheer up husband when he is down.
8. Wife needs to be a mentor/motivator when required and motivate husband to achieve his goals.
9. Wife should never ever talk low about husband to him or any outsider. always project a positive image.
10. If needed point his mistakes in a subtle way(ensuring not to hurt his ego) and guide him rightly.
11. Never expect him to understand you 100%. If he does not explain to him rather than nagging him and fighting with him.
12. Give him his personal space.
13. Dont expect him to share every detail with you. If you feel you need to know something gain his confidence to make him share it with you.
Marriage is like cooking a dish. If all the ingredients are proper and balanced only the dish turns out good. Similarly marriage will be successful if we can balance all emotions and bring out the best of both husband and wife.
Marriage is like playing doubles match. Where the partners have to focus on the strengths of the partners and highlight them and take advantage of the situations based on the strengths to achieve success

 

..................

 

Thanks Vijima for your Like

 

Thanks Jasmine

 

Thank you all. Thanks Aditi never expected it to be featured.