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I am feeling quite upset now...hence thought of writing my feelings over here...after all, what is IL for? Yesterday, I had some health problem due to which my BP suddenly went down and I was hospitalised for a day. I am otherwise quite a healthy person...and I have not myself entered an hospital as a patient, except at the time of delivery. Like all couples, I and my DH also fight sometimes; sometimes it is healthy, sometimes it is not; then I feel hurt and upset. I am especially sensitive about my health, more so when DH does not care about my medicines etc. Last year when he underwent a minor surgery, I took such good care of him, that even my in-laws praise me for that till now. They tell their relatives that they no longer worry about their son, as he has got such a caring wife.
So the same way, I always wanted and expected my husband to help me and be at my side whenever I need him. But in fact, whenever I had to visit a doctor, most of the times, I had to go alone, as you all know, husbands are soooooooo busy with their jobs that they don't get time even to accompany their wife to a clinic. But yesterday, he took an off as I was hospitalised...took good care of me. It made me very happy.
But since today morning, even though I am still feeling very weak, he was expecting that I would carry on normally with my routine. He did not even ask me if I have taken my medicines or not. On top of it, after coming from office, he started arguing and fighting with me for some silly issues and just went off to sleep. His behaviour has made me very upset. Well, I know that there are so many other ladies with much more serious problems, and for them, this may not at all be a "problem" or a reason enough to get upset...but yes, I am feeling very lonely and upset..and just thought of sharing it with you all...that's it.
Thanks & Take Care,