Husband's Cheating!!!!

RadiantFlower · Sep 7, 2013

realityuser said: ↑

Meeting my DH personally won't work.
He already expressed his expectations and No educated women in this century can follow it.

->According to DH, wife should not do job, should not involve in any matters, should not argue, should not raise her voice for her needs and she is just to cook and clean the home.

->He told clearly that i should listen to all his decisions all the life time without arguing and I should be in his path and wrong/correct never matters
->He hates women's individuality. His family is like that: FIL all the time shouts at MIL without any reason, She acts like innocent and does not react and always in kitchen and dedicates whole life for cooking, eating, cleaning etc..So DH expects same from me.

I tried to explain him: Husband and wife both are having equal importance, should respect individual's decisions, should be mutually understanding But he never cares and all he cares should follow/listen his decisions from buying a small mirror to buying a land!!!!
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Your husband has spelled it out loud and clear what he expects from you; you know that he's not going to change.

realityuser said: ↑

I'm wondering why DH married a well educated and job holder who expects her minimum individuality and why not she continue after marriage though they do not have much responsibilities(kids etc..) and also why he kept all my money with him ???
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It's a mystery to me, too...particularly the money aspect.

realityuser · Sep 7, 2013

I know for sure he wont change and wont behave like a this generation guy and wont stop do acting with me!!!
what else i can do???:bonk

realityuser · Sep 8, 2013

Whatever my MIL says DH listens and believes only that and he does not try to believe me in any situations i have to my self as he won't support me and stand with me.

So many times DH supported SIL (BIL's wife) based on MIL's brainwash to him and said that i misunderstood SIL.

I guess More than a wife, he believes~~loves his mom(SIL), then what is the need of me as a wife and why he married me and spoiled my life with all possible things?????

As i don't have courage to divorce him and marry some other guy or stay single(i don't have kid) so i'm thinking to stay with such moron!!!!

What do you say Ladies..

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