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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Anandchitra, Nov 30, 2012.

  1. Anandchitra

    Anandchitra IL Hall of Fame

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    Why wait for February to celebrate a romance which can be and should be celebrated every day?
    Romancing your spouse is daily affair and does not need occasion or even expensive gifts.
    Romance is all about both of you feeling special and sharing surprise gifts even the most inexpensive one leads to closeness.
    Many gifts can also be handmade.
    There really is no need to buy expensive ones or spend money buying fancy flower arrangements or expensive jewelry.
    Romance can be a lot of fun when treated lightly and we do not make too much out of it.
    Small ways to let our spouse know we are thinking of him / her.
    Knowing his favorite hobby we can send links, paper cuttings or even a gift card to show we care.
    Aware of his reading habits we can send him updates on his favorite author or link to current news articles.
    The list is really endless when we think about it.
    Sometimes when I just hang out with hubby in the yard while he rakes the leaves, there seems to be a calm quiet content feeling in the air which follows us indoors while we share a cuppa tea.
    It is just that when we are so caught up with our daily routine and sometimes too tired that we put things off for a later date.
    Well friends the time is now for sure so let us at this moment show how much we care.

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    True Chitra dear everyday is Valentine's day and making our hubby happy should be our motto. My hubby does not believe in getting cards or gifts. He is not a foodie, but I make him happy with variety of dishes everyday and when he says wow this is superb, I feel very happy. I pray to God to give him healthy life and keep him happy always. He is interested in Social Service , so I help him inwhatever way I can,like , by attending to the phone calls from people which comes for him when he is not there..


    Just googled and got this how to keep hubby happy
    Meet him with a cheerful face.
    o Start with good news and delay any bad news until he has rested
    o Receive him with loving and yearning sentences
    o Make hard efforts for excellence of the food & having it ready on time.
     
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    Dear Viji
    Thanks for this lovely response comment. You are indeed a role model. I enjoyed reading those lines from the net.. receive him with loving and yearning sentences.. :)

     
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    sadwife Gold IL'ite

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    I too agree that everyday should be Valentine Day.
    I'm still working on it. LOL
     
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    Anitap IL Hall of Fame

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    Good advice AC.
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Everyday will be hard for me... :) I am going to start with twice a week, and once in the weekend. Like my exercise routine.

    Nice thread to remind us what is so easy to forget...
     
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    Oops got duplicated
    -Neetu-
     
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    AC dear, we Ilites are very thankful to you for bringing such romantic posts on fridays annd making us love bitten during the weekends. :thumbsup
    Love makes life so beautiful and am seeing it making you very youthful too.
    keepn these love tales coming and we are there for all the cheering....
    -Neetu-
     
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    Stressfull Silver IL'ite

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    Chitra its refreshing to see ur threads thanks for ur idea i also agree with rihana for me also its difficult to give a trywith my 3yr hyper active kid i will give a try in the weekend :) :thumbsup
     
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