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Dominating Husband :( What to do??

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by anupandit, Nov 21, 2012.

  1. anupandit

    anupandit New IL'ite

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    Hi

    My husband nature is very dominating, and strict :cry: He just hate arguing ..
    I cant handle him :(
    He is not listing any suggestions, thoughts, & my feelings.
    Sometime i feel to hang out outside, do some outing and all, but he don't like that. He outing alone but not come with me. I don't know how he feels about me. (may be he don't like me)
    Only one positive point of him is - he is so caring nature, that's it...

    Can you buddies tell me how to handle such kind of husband ?? :(
     
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  2. Ragini25

    Ragini25 Platinum IL'ite

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    Traditional Indian hubby who is caring but not outgoing. yeah, there are some of them. Its not the end of the world, but I suppose such hubbys are around.

    Figure out your interests and do them on your own.
     
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  3. Glima

    Glima New IL'ite

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    When he is caring, you can always gently speak him to see your point of views and preferences. May be he is oozing with too much of testosterone (male harmone) :)
     
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  4. nicegirlradhi

    nicegirlradhi Gold IL'ite

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    Hi Anupandit

    how long have you been married? in case if you are married, i think he is still cherishing for his bachelor days

    Have interests of your own. Then he will slowly come to you
     
  5. anupandit

    anupandit New IL'ite

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    I got married 8 months ago..
    May be you are true...
     
  6. nicegirlradhi

    nicegirlradhi Gold IL'ite

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    Just stay yourself calm and indulge with him normally. dont be vocal about your feelings for him, but show them in actions occasionally. He will realize soon
     
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    Topaz Silver IL'ite

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    New husbands are either very cranky or they are too lovey-dovey! Guess you got the former.

    Now if you play your cards right, then you can slowly get him to change, but it cannot happen by you arguing or fighting or nagging him. You find the right time and ask him to do you a favor and take you shopping or a movie, but make it look like he is Rewarding you for being a good wife, initially it will work an eventually he will change when he sees that going out is fun.
     
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  8. aminroop

    aminroop IL Hall of Fame

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    lol at that!
     
  9. simple1234

    simple1234 Silver IL'ite

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    you can nail him when you are making love with him :) . All the guys in the world say YES at that time -:)
     
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    anupandit New IL'ite

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    Thanks Topaz,
    appreciate your answer :)
     

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