is it is necessary to have our own space in a marraige???

i certainly need space, trust and respect in any relationship.

to each , his own.

 

It depends on the type of person and relationship between them. Some space is good but you both should agree & respect that. If only 1 wants space & the other feel bad about it then its nt good.

 

i need my own space..and when i expect that, i would like to give my DH the same..

 

There is wide range of opinions on what is considered private space between husband and wife. IMO, It is not necessary to tell every petty thing about office matters, spending, outdoor activities, hobbies, etc. But I really don't understand what is meant by private space when you are at home.

If a husband is chatting online with someone and demands wife will not look at the screen, is he seeking private space or is he being suspicious? Or say, if a wife makes 'gajar ka halwa' in the afternoon and finishes it off before he comes home, should she be transparent and tell him or think of it as her personal space?

 

personal space is over-rated lol... to me, it really doesnt mean anything more than "do not creep into spouse's confidential (or password protected) things without permission"

 

I need my own space and respect DH's personal space too.....but i would definitely poke (just out of curiosity) into DH's matters if he intentionally hides from me. He will remain my suspicion target till he admits.

 

for me the more you are transparent the better is your life it might even apply to finishing off gajar ka halwa before hubby is back from office..i mean why give space for unnecessary doubts when you dont have anything to hide about????