Can someone please tell this man... what pregnancy is.

dear friends,
the man's thinking is typical male thinking.now,admit it .our hubby also sometimes wonder why we make big fuss of our monthly periods & all the troubles associated with it.though they are gentlemen enough not to air these views loudly.
i feel the real culpit is the MIL.she being a woman should have been more sensitive.but all she does is poision his sons thinking .this person is quoting his mother just to support his own distorted thinking.
as one of our friends pointed nothing can change this man's thinking.i just hope his wife does not suffer much .she poor girl has a jerk for husdand ,an evil MIL,two toddlers & another pregnancy.lets pray for her.

i have never really replied to any of the posts bu this is incredible. I feel that it is the B**** the mother who is to be blamed here. this guy doesn't understand that he is born today because of the same. what is he trying to explain. i totally agree to throw it to crows and pigs.

Oh my god....i can never believe what this guy wrote.....how could anyone be so insensitive to a pregnant woman. And cribing about spending money on doctors check ups is really ridiculous. I hope someone could talk sense into this guy and his GREAT MOTHER....and lets pray for that poor girl
-Priya

Looks like his mother didnt have any doctor visits when she had him. What heartless woman would tell like that. But of course he wants a male child. For that he needs a wife but for other needs he doesnt need her and she is a liability.
There is a saying in my language
Dont ask for food Dont ask for clothes ,I will treat you like a queen. here it applies perfectly.
THis is really pathetic. I hope the girl is okay.

i really cannot understand what kind of a guy this man is.....what does he expect out of a wife..i think he has a wife only to cook and do all dirty jobs for him....i pity tht poor girl...

lov
sowmi

What a MORON he is and his mother needs to be kicked right on her butt. Both of them need lessons about leading a healthy life. And he needs to get family planning operation done ASAP. My God three kids in three years with one woman. Such a Sicko.

i agree with u all, he needs a lesson.

from me, a big tight slap. which he can hear for ever n ever.

Skavi

Poor lady got married to a DIRTY PIGGG..

He needed a son and got her pregnant, what is she? A machine to pop out babies whenever he wants with no issues whatsoever..

I say, bring him to my court and my judgment will be - to cut his you-know-what and throw him in the middle of a hot desert naked... muhahahahahahaha.. let him bleed to death...

I understand that a man cannot be expected to know everything that happens to a woman during pregnancy...that's the reason you should be reading some good books, or at least browse on the internet for some good information. Just listening to your mother will not help. Different women go through different things! Just because your mother was totally fine during hers (which is hard to believe) doesnt mean that every woman would be the same. If you want your child to be born healthy, you better step up and support your wife. Its not your wife, its the new hormones in her body that's doing all this to her. So she wants a little pampering, BIG DEAL! Just give it to her. She deserves it all, and more now. Keep in mind that every little thing you do now can affect the well being of your child.
So you have two girls? When they grow up, and their respective husbands behave the same way as you do.....you will know exactly why everybody's so mad!

He is just an insensitive animal. I won;t blame the mil. If this guy is good, then any mil cannot change that basic nature. My heart goes out for this girl. This post seems from the beginning of this yr, may be that girl delivered already. May god bless her and her new born with some love and affection and kick this animal.
-Swathi