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Hi all i have big problem. I would like to get out of this and want to led a peaceful life. Kindly suggest me ideas.
Hi.... by nature i am stout from childhood so i had a builtin inferiority complex till now. My relatives also teased me very much so i was totally helpless and always reserved. Iam very afraid to my father and wont talk to him. We rarely speak in words not in sentences. At my age of 23 i was 155cm hight and 78 kg weight but i will be looking good. My friends usually tell u have innocent good looking smiling face and i have fans in my girls college for my straight hair and smile. I was little interested in sex from 14 yrs onwards. I usually watch english films for those scenes. In my mind it was fixed that i can only watch and enjoy this i cant get marry. I tried a lot to change this bad habit but i failed.
Since i have learnt from childhood in girls school (college also girls only) i am very shy to speak with boys. The inferiority complex and shyness made my mind worse. My father started seeing bridegroom for me. Since i am afraid to my father much and due to my inferiority complex i agreed to marry a guy whom my father showed. My husband is 6 yrs elder than me, black, 163 cm height and looking elder(without hair dye). In all my dreams i had 6ft tall guy, good looking, jovially speaking but my husband is just opposite to all my dreams. But he is nice human wont drink / smoke. So some how i adjusted my mind to live with him.
The main problem arise between us when i came to know that he is not much interested in sex. He is not at all enjoying sex with me, just for the shake of doing it. He is also not romantic. As a newly married couple staying home alone he wont come and hug / kiss / help me in kitchen. Since i was interested in romance and sex very much i was totally dis appointed. I dont know how to proceed my life so i speak with my husband frankly to enjoy and do sex with me and did many things. But he is doing just 5 mins with me that too with out much involvement. I was totally disappointed frustrated and started hating everything. We will be fighting always. I spoke with him directly regarding my wish about sex but he is not hearing any of my words. He will shout like anything if i started speaking abt this. How can i make my husband more romantic and lovable towards me. He always behave like 60yr old guy and he is not understanding that we are just married and need to enjoy the world. Please friends help me how can i change my husband think like a youth.