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I am married for 3.6 years and have a 2.5 yr old son.
My dh is a good person at heart. He loves me & our kid a lot.(he doesn't know how to express that). I too love him a lot.
But one bad quality in him is he scolds me badly when he gets angry.
He pulls my parents and would say that their brought-up(me) is not good.
And says that's y i am not able to behave properly.
I'm very sensitive. Many set backs for me in my personal & official life because of this.
If anyone calls me loud in a anger tone, tears will roll down.
Also i always wanted to balance good terms between his relatives and my relatives.
Problem rises here only and he'll end up in saying that i don't know how to behave with relatives(both the sides) and that's why i am getting nose-cuts from them often. (yes it happened many times :()
I dunno how to make him & others realize that i am good at heart and doesn't want to hurt anyone even in dreams.
He says i am pretending to be good.Not at all.
Also when he calls from office, he doesnt bother how the situation is for me either @office or @home. He wants me to pick the call and answer. If i say i'll call u later, he'll keep on asking "tell me ..what happened" and not allow me to end the call.
If i forcibly do it, that's all. the whole week i'll have to hear his scoldings for each and every conversation.
Friends...Can you please help me
1. to make him realize that i love him a lot and am deeply getting hurted if he scolds me for silly things?
2. Also, How can i build myself stronger mentally?
(Long back i posted one query for my problems with my in-laws. Now i'm fine with them though some frictions raise now and then.)
Thanks in advance dears.