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Dear unhappywife (personally I feel u shud change this name, things can change at anytime),
Its very much understandable how you would feel when your husband acts so! But you have also mentioned that he was not like this in the early stages of marriage. Were there any major misunderstandings/problems in between and he changed so? Also you have mentioned that he wont be like this with his parents/siblings. So just thought of asking whether there is any reason behind all this?
Also if you have some time and if u feel that he is in normal mood, you can probably go and ask him softly why he is behaving so and how much you would like to talk and laugh with him? Also ask him to forgive yourself if you have had done any thing without your knowledge which has affected him. Ask him what are his expectations in this life with you and how long he can be like this without sharing anything. You both are married and sharing your life till now and will be doing this for many more years.He is going to spend most of his lifetime with you and there should be mutual understanding/love/care between you people.
I would suggest you to open up and tell your mind clearly to him and ask him to speak up as well. tell him he cannot live like this forever. At least when your kids are grown up, he has to answer them for his behaviors right?