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Hi friends,This is my first posting. I ve been reading threads in this forum. Iam 41yrs happily married. My husband is 45yrs. We dont have kids.. Problem is with me. We both do not worry for that also, as we aleays feel that what god does is for good. My husband is very loving, never says no to any of my wishes, family runs as per my wishes only, i get what ever I want, If i like something he will get it for me without even asking. Any women would liketo have a husband likehim.
We had a proper sex life till afew years ago. Butnow, there is nothing called "sex"happening between us. He has a very tensionous job and I can understand it, I have also not taken this seriously till a year ago, but now, my menopause has started and i am feeling so very frustrated, i spoke to him regarding this, and he said that, i am expecting too much from him, and he has lost interest in sex. This makes me reallywild and it happens only for 10days once my periods are over. I thesedays feel wheatherit is wrong on my part to expect it from my husband.
Due to over frustration, i tend to fight with him. More, and i get irritated during these days. I spoke to some of. My friends, they say that it is quiet possible in middle ages, women tend to long for sex more, but it is unfortunate that my husband has lost interest. I would like to know if it is true.
I googled about this and was amazed to find that so many men have complained about their wifes not co operating with them in bed, my doubt is, is it happening the other way round only for me or if anybody else is also going through the same stage. Does sexual feelings for women increases as ages goes by? I cannot talk about these things to my parents. I would like some elders to reply for my queries.