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I just need to know if this is normal. My husband does not call me after he leaves for office/tour. If he leaves home at 8 and comes back at 9,10 or 12 a.m. This has been the way all along the marriage. I would have told him that 100 times that pls call me. I dont want to sit and chat with him. This has been the way even during my tough times. Even during pregnancy and I was working full time, never ever he calls and asks if am fine and feeling well. Even after delivery and till date does he call and ask how I am or the baby is doing? Who has so much work that they cant remember their family for 14 hrs in a day? Still, I used to call him once during work time. Most times, he does not even pick up the call. If he picks up, he says he will call and he never does. Though my relationship has gone beyond the stage where I have stopped feeling loved I still cant fathom why one free phone call for one minute or less is so difficult to make? is he doing this on purpose? Does it make him feel "needed" when i call him? Once, one snowy night he came back home at 3:30 a.m(imagine no news from morning till next day). I know he was at work but did not know whether something has happened on the way. I called up his colleagues at home but could not get thru. When he reached home and I was furious for him not makeing a call he said whats there to worry? How insensitve? I felt stupid for even caring abt him. I felt am caring for a perosn who has not cared /does not care for me.