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Not to be stereotypical, but the type of people you meet working in New York City and Wall Street are A LOT different than the average American. For one, the people who flock to NYC are often extremely career oriented and will put career above anything else. NYC has a high cost of living, and you have to be extremely determined and driven to succeed there. It attracts a certain type of individual.However, when I got into the workplace, and was exposed to how they are, how they disregard their families, how they view raising their kids are a burden, I started to realize the good qualities of our culture.
Whereas in the rest of the US where life is not so fast paced and you get a broader range of people, you will see many great caucasian families that love each other and value family.
While you are in the process of exposing yourself to the horrible white culture, please also expose yourself to more Indian culture... like where some INDIAN parents leave their kids in India with grandparents while they go globe trotting and climbing the career ladder too. Yeah, I'm sure there are some white parents who think of their kids as burdens. JUST AS THERE ARE INDIANS WHO FEEL THE SAME.
Love and family are not exclusive to INDIAN CULTURE. Love and family are traits valued in EVERY SINGLE CULTURE ON THIS EARTH.
Marrying an INDIAN will not save you from being abused, or cheated on, and it will not gaurantee that your child will have the best father on planet earth. Being Indian and celebrating Indian culture doesn't make a person GOOD. Marrying an Indian or caucasian is besides the point. The key to a good marriage is marrying a GOOD PERSON. Period. In whatever color they come in. I'm glad you like Indian culture (I like it too ) but never make the mistake of thinking that Indian culture is better than another person's culture. Because if you set aside your pride about 'being Indian', you will see that all the culture's are so similar (almost identical). Maybe Indians congregate on diwali, while caucasians do Christmas. Indians eat biryani, chinese eat fried rice. Indians speak hindi, Germans speak German. But when you look at it aren't we talking about the same thing just with a different name?
The white guys you encountered in your organization are probably pompous a-holes who are used to calling the shots and ruling over women. But if you were in India, and working in an organization full of Indians, you would definitely encounter 1 or 2 similar creeps who think they can take advantage of you. That's not a caucasian thing.... it's a MALE thing. And while I'm at it, if you ever think WHITE WOMEN are cheap or unfaithful, take a look at the threads on here about INDIAN women cheating.
If caucasians have an extended adolescence, then I think Indian men have an extended infancy. Because I have seen big baby's in both groups. But Indian men really seem to take the cake when it comes to depending on their parents for everything.The author says that caucasian males have an extended adolescence.
Just my opinion.