Am I betraying my husband??

I might sound like the rude one here....but I am sooo surprised and also upset at the same time to see the no. of posts on IL lately about how married women find other men attractive and start finding faults in their husbands:hide:

Coming to your above question...can a married woman and another married woman be friends?? if so please define it...there lies the answer for your above question...

Friends wont get attracted physically....but people who are attracted physically can be just friends.....so that is the catch there..

I have very very best friends who are married men but that doest make me feel attracted to them....there are very diff. reasons for me finding them as great friends...

I guess instead of talking about something like friendship...how about you trying to figure out whats wrong with you or your marriage....YOURS is LOVE MARRIAGE?? and you find other men attractive :bonkwhat does that say??? what has changed in your marraige? does your husband pay enough attention towards you? do you feel loved and wanted in your own home, by your husband, does he make you feel loved? cuddle, pamper you? what is it that you find attractive in those men and that is not so attractive in your husband? was your husband like that all this while? or are you seeing any new side of your husband lately?

Might be its the 7 years itch??? basically are you feeling you guys are in too much of a routine that you dont find those lovey dovey moments anymreo in your relationship??/

 

There is no one set definition for what you are asking. It depends per person. You yourself can analyze if what you are doing is cheating or innocent crush by putting yourself in your H's shoes and vice versa.

Say he has the exact same feelings towards his female colleagues, how much can you accept as innocent crush or friendship and where do you wish to draw the line before it turns to cheating?? Define that according to your standards and then set the same standards for yourself.

 

:exactly::yes: I feel the same too. :cheers

 

This is cruel.Please dont ask this question again.You are definitely out of the track.This will lead to EMA in the long run.

 

Hi Itsmyworld,

Ur thoughts are very bad, please change ur mind, think abt ur family,parents, DH, LO etc.....

married women can be frendly with married men / unmarriewd men
that is not at all an issue, but u said tat u got attracted by others, dont u found it shame! if u found some one with best qualities u can appreciate that, u can wounder them, or u can even follow their best attitudes... thats it,

u as a married lady u ur Husband should be ur Hero, no one should tell tis to u; u should feel this, He is ur man, he is everything for u, try to be frendly with all ur co workers, try to respect each individual, esply u admire ur self, respect urself & feel that u r living a very happy , responsible & blessed life which none else is blessed with, & feel proud that u have loving hubby & a lovely kid & say WOW how Lucky i am !

never sit idle & think unnecessary make urself busy with family & ur friends, try realise ur own responsibilities, try to behave in such a way that others can admire u ok na,

please take care of ur family, ur thoughts should always sweet to build a lovely life, never ever get confused.......... pray well, hug ur kid & kiss ur kid, get wrapped around by ur man & tel him sorry for no reason

take all the ILts reply as ur welwishers advice, please don spoil ur life by unnecesary thoughts, GOD bless u

 

very frankly your cheating your husband thats no doubt in it
mine s also love marriage dear after 10 years we got married our parents were against but now my family accept it but my mil still didnt accept me.

am such a mad on him dont you have that see love s such nice feeling
we cannot show the same to other person. there are many situation we are facing in our day to day life peaople may change but after 7 years of you married life now your finding mistakes in your husband but wat you doing now you also doing mistakes.better try to change him according to your expectation sit and chat with him definently u'll get a solution

if i write further i'll go rude in this page

pls dont cheat anymore lets forget everything be a truthful wife


viji

 

hai sara

your words are doing magic in this page

its really true