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Those who know me may wonder what this is about. So lemme make it clear. This is about my close friend who keeps complaining about her hubby. Well, I wonder if this is really a problem. She has been married for a year, no kids. Her problem(??) is her hubby keeps teasing her all the time related to other women. For ex: when she calls him, suddenly her hubby would say that there is a good looking lady passing by and that he wishes he could chat with her. Sometimes when she talks romantically, he would just snub her saying how nice it would have been if he married some other woman, etc. Hope you get the point. Even if she does not react and just ignore, her hubby will make sure that she reacts and then will console and cajole her.
She says she likes the last phase (cajoling), but gets irritated at the teasing phase. She says it is OK, if her hubby does it once in a while. But this happens always, every other day. She also tried explaining to her hubby how hurt she gets when he talks like that always. But he replies that he likes to tease her and then console her. Sometimes he says he wont repeat it again, but cant keep his word for even an hour. He says he cant help it. So I gave this idea to do the same to him. She said she tried that too, but there was no reaction to that. Her hubby just ignored it.
Now, my friend has a great married life, no real problems in life, but keeps complaining about this habit and gets hurt. Please tell me friends, is this really a problem? Or is my friend over-reacting? Any idea how to handle her hubby? Expert advise needed
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