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I am the last in the family. I have brothers and sisters.I always feel that being last i was giving least priority in asking opinions and suggestions. In everybody's mind they think that i will be always young and never grow.Before marriage i was never consulted for any family matter. As i am the darling of the family every body poured affection on me.But when i start giving suggestion immediately i would hear "your are too young to give your opinion"( even at 25+)
I am married to the last son of a five member family.Here also i am the darling. I am enjoying all previlages like selecting saree of my choice, taking rest doing house hold work.But giving ideas and opinions my thing is least considered.Every body consider me as kid even though i have two kids.Some time my MIL would say on during auspicious days "let sudha have some tiffin, she cannot starve for long she is too young to follow those things".i have so many relaxations which is not allowed for my sistesr in laws.I can understand my MIL's affection but i cannot digest that they didn't consider me a matured lady.
Please tell me being born lost is a curse or boon.