Happy or sad?

Thanks a lot for your kind and encouraging words. A week has passed since, I am in a much better situation now. I will reply to individual comments soon.
D

Hi Drjp

I am sorry for not seeing your post, my browser was just not allowing me to access Indusladies.

I am happy that you are out of a bad relationship.

I can relate with you, as one does feel bad of not being able to give a complete family to the child, but tell me does a child want a family for namesake?no, if the family members are not involved withe the welfare of kids and don't realise their responsibilities, its better to be away from them.

Kids can be explained that they are better off than those kids who are orphans, they atleast have a parent to take care of them.

Its always better for the kids to have an incomplete family rather than have an abusive atmosphere in a family.

Like Ria said, I too haven't destroyed any of the photographs of my child's father, even not my wedding pictures, they don't affect me and my daughter knows that the fact will always remain that so and so is/was her father. Tahat wwas part of my life and even if i remove the photograph, it will alwyas remain with me, though I am detached, It doesn't affect me.

Slowly with time, you will also learn to take things in your own stride (I will not say forget,as its difficult, but you won't be affected by those memories).

Love and best wishes for your future
Ansh

Its good news that you are out of bad relationship.

Life is all yours from now on, have your challenges listed and keep working on it everyday. I will pray god to give you a peaceful life atleast from now on.

Regards
Shobana

Dear Drjp,

I am happy for you that you are out of a bad relationship. I am sure your kids will understand and support you fully too....the whole new chapter in your life has begun.
Sit back, relax and enjoy! Close the past events like a old chapter and never look back!

Best wishes for your bright and happy future!
Sihi

Dear Drjp,

You have to give your kids the love of both the mother and father now, so your responsibility increases with this divorce.

About what to do with memories of wedding after divorce - well never forget the lessons. No one is perfect. In a divorce usually both partners make some mistakes, hence learn from the mistakes so that you are a better partner in future.

Our best wishes are with you