Want to know whether I was right

Hi all I am very new to this forum and even I joined this forum to get rid of my confusion. I got married 2 years ago and now I have got divorce from my husband. Here is my story and bear with my boring one.
He is working in abroad and we never met each other before marriage. We spoke only through video call. Ours was an arranged marriage. I never had complaints regarding his handsomeness and from the day it was decided that he is my soul mate I loved him like anything and gave him all my love. But then I didn’t know that he is not satisfied with my beauty or outlook. And to your info I am a good looking girl with good complexion and I myself know I am not looking the way he defines me. But every time he complains me about my looks, I used to lose my confidence and got hurt very deeply. He never fondled me in our relation as expected of any newlywed couple. He started talking about his family even on the first night of our wedding and he scolded me. In our honeymoon also, he hurted me by his words.
We lived in abroad for only four months and in those 4 months he used to quarrel with me over petty things. I agree that I even fought back with him but then also literally I can’t say I fought, I just replied for his words in anger. And that all happened only for few days until I came to know about his ruggedness. To explain you properly I could quote few examples for his harsh behaviour , he broke a fan, he removed my mangalsutra, he bent my finger and he hit me badly inside an elevator. And I could really tell no reasons for these all and things went wrong only when I start to converse with him and try to make him understand my feelings. Just while conversing he will burst into anger and he will start doing like this. This has happened nearly six to seven times in those 4 months. But that was too much for a person like me who never did anything wrong to him except pouring showers of love over him. Above all he used very bad and filthy words which I even could not quote here. But he never apologized to me for any of his wrong behaviours and he didn’t even realize. I came to know that he was feeling inferior to me and he had a fear over me that I would dominate him in all aspects. And also he thought that I would separate him from his family. But I never had a thought like that and I used to spend sleepless nights feeling very depressed. At last I concluded that these all happens because he has been brought up in such a way and also in such an environment. Besides these things their family members were also not good. His father’s personal behaviour is very bad. He had a women harassment complaint on him. Finally I returned to India for some reasons.
I never informed my parents about these. I told about all that happened to me after reaching India. They were literally shocked to hear this and they informed my husband’s grand father. After knowing that I have told all the things to my family my husband got furious and again scolded me badly. That time he was there in abroad. Then I stopped talking with him just to give a break. But after reaching here he came to our home along with his parents and he hit my dad, my sister and her baby also. I was totally broken. He then went to police station and gave a complaint that we made a conspiracy and hit him badly. He stated many unbelievable complaints over me in the police station. He told me that we only hit him and tried to make me fool. He never apologized to me or accepted anything he has done to me. But he asked me to come along with him.
I was totally broken and I never wanted to be with him again after this incident. Then he left me and went abroad.We were separated for one year. He continued to message me requesting me to come with him. But he never accepted things he did. At the same time he and his father made a lot of complaints(nearly 10 in different places) on me and my family, including one murder attempt case and one claiming that I am a fraud and married him to steal their money. I came to a decision that any girl would arrive in this circumstance and decided to part from him and applied for divorce. He suddenly accepted and gave me divorce.
I knew that this is the only way to lead my life in a peaceful way but still I feel guilty that I must have adjusted to all circumstances and lived along with him. I don’t know why I have such thoughts. I feel that I am madly in love with him but he is no way worth for it.
Now I write this to know what I did was right or not ? I didn’t write all the things in detail. Please judge me correctly. Waiting for all your reply just to heal myself. Thank u all in advance.

 

Thanks for taking time to reply me. This means a lot to me.But if u have time could you please answer my one more question. When we were departed he sent me a lot of messages telling that he miss me and sent his photos in which he has lost weight. But at the same time he kept giving complaints in police station stating that then only I ll live along with him. Why he did so?
If u have time pls reply me mam

 

Thanks for concern and replying to me.means a lot .thank u once again

 

@yellowmango
Yes as u said I have well behaved like an Indian woman...now
I am out of the prison..thanks for spending time for me.Now am out of confusion. Hope to think better and clear.really meant a lot to me.thanks a lot

 

@shruthisp
Yes I must convince that this never happened and I have to move on...thanks a lot for spending ur time.means a lot to me