Want to know whether I was right

IamLucky · Jul 8, 2015

Dear Op,
Hugges to you and congrats for your bright future.
I feel like watching a movie which does not happen. You happened to be in that relationship for 4 months in a unknown place. I am not able to imagine.
Dont even think that this is wrong decision. Perfect decision to be in peace for u and your family.
Hitting a kid in the fight shows his instability.

neni · Jul 8, 2015

You have done the right thing. Any one in your position would have done the same thing.

deeprapriya · Jul 8, 2015

Whatever you have done is right!!!!... Dont have guilt about it!!!!.... Concentrate on the things that you like and come out of it slowly. It is really possible!!!!.

You have a brightful future!!!!... God always tests his pets by giving more problems!!!!... Dont worry.... Hugs to you!!!!.

Barupavi · Jul 8, 2015

@Iamlucky
Suddenly after fighting he wants me to talk with him and be with him.but he will never accept his mistake.he will tell he is right.but because of mad affection I will also act normal and there is no other way also.so I thought he is doing all these unknowingly and convinced to be with him..and he pushed my sister down along with her kid holding the kid's head..I just felt like telling you...to get rid of my grievance
Thanks for taking time ..will move on soon

Barupavi · Jul 8, 2015

@neni & @deeprapriya
Thanks for concern

IamLucky · Jul 8, 2015

Barupavi said: ↑

@Iamlucky
Suddenly after fighting he wants me to talk with him and be with him.but he will never accept his mistake.he will tell he is right.but because of mad affection I will also act normal and there is no other way also.so I thought he is doing all these unknowingly and convinced to be with him..and he pushed my sister down along with her kid holding the kid's head..I just felt like telling you...to get rid of my grievance
Thanks for taking time ..will move on soon
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Disgusting creature.
Now stop thinking about this useless and concentrate on ur bright future.
My prayers with you.console1

desposhwetha · Jul 8, 2015

Hi OP.

I was in a similar situation sometime back.Kinda worse than what you are facing.
It would be extremely tough to suddenly be filled with such a pain. You need to first accept this pain and forget it. I know it is not easy but try.

1. Start working. If you are at home, u will become insane.
2. Love? Start questioning if it was actually love that u had on him? DOnt confuse yourself. You are probably too lonely that you feel may be his company would be better than being lonely.
3. I know it is tough. but forget and move on. Abusers never change. Thankfully you do not have kids with him. A big relief.
4. This pain will take time to recover. Pray for peace and de focus on your personal life and focus only on your professional career and your life. try and be happy.