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Looking after mother in law even after Divorce

Discussion in 'Life Without Spouse' started by iyerviji, Jun 8, 2015.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

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    Welcome tomy thread and thanks for your feedback
     
  2. omnam

    omnam Platinum IL'ite

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    good to read.

    Good to see/virtual meet you having a true relationship with your FIL even after D.
     
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    SGBV IL Hall of Fame

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    Ya, many people do exist.

    My aunt keep in touch with my mom even after divorcing my uncle (mom's bro who is no more). We do visit this aunt's house, and attended cousin's marriage several years after my uncle had passed away.

    My another uncle's ex GF (whom he dated for many years and almost married) still keep in touch with my mom though she is married to another person and has 2 kids.

    So, such relationships do exist, and they really earn the love by their act, and not through the relatives.
     
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    kitkat119 Junior IL'ite

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    I had a SIL who was step daughter of my ex MIL.
    She was treated bad,married off very young in village.She is very happy in life and settled in London.Whenever she now visits India she always calls/msg.
    We are surrounded by beautiful people,there are only few that are disconnected to themselves.I personally try to cherish the lil positive light that we see in day to day life than be stuck to the major trauma that happened in past.
    Cheers
     
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    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

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    Thank you @SGBV and @kitkat for yur feedback and sharing your experience, sorry for the late reply
     
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    kcb IL Hall of Fame

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    It's very rare to see a divorced woman staying at in laws place.It's good to know about that lady...Thanks for sharing viji maam...
     
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    I am so sorry@kcb dear I do not know how I missed acknowledging your feedback. Yo u are right dear
     

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