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Discussion in 'Life Without Spouse' started by ivlakshmi, Apr 1, 2015.

  1. AruljothiD

    AruljothiD Silver IL'ite

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    Dont feel bad..As u r searching him, He is also searching u..
    Think of the delay as - God is waiting for a best time to set up your meeting with ur future life partner.. console1..
     
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  2. sumzaya

    sumzaya Gold IL'ite

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    Everything will come to you at the perfect time. Hearing others gud news will make us question/depressed ourself that's normal... But think the other way... "" ohhh poor them they gonna miss their bachelor/spinster life n freedom... ""
    Enjoy each moment dear... Don't give time for negative emotions to win ...
    Take a chill pill... N say. Yooooooo
     
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  3. Marzipan

    Marzipan Gold IL'ite

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    First off, I am not "hellbent" on scaring her, I don't think anyone here is. If you read it that way, it is your problem. Most of us who have been members here long enough know what she has been going through and me being in an almost similar situation as her, was only making light of the situation.
     
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  4. kinjal

    kinjal Bronze IL'ite

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    it's most common feeling laxmi, nothing wrong with it.
    I felt it at every stage of my life. After graduation everybody got good break and I was still waiting for good opportunity. Most of my friends got married and I was still waiting for Mr. right . Everybody had kids and I was going thru infertility. it's the same feeling of being left out and helplessness. Sometimes scary that will it ever happen.

    Don't worry it's just matter of time and things will fall into place. Till then njoy your time.
     
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  5. kinjal

    kinjal Bronze IL'ite

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    it's most common feeling laxmi, nothing wrong with it.
    I felt it at every stage of my life. After graduation everybody got good break and I was still waiting for good opportunity. Most of my friends got married and I was still waiting for Mr. right . Everybody had kids and I was going thru infertility. it's the same feeling of being left out and helplessness. Sometimes scary that will it ever happen.

    Don't worry it's just matter of time and things will fall into place. Till then try to live present day. do something which will make you happy.
     
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  6. coolangel

    coolangel Senior IL'ite

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    Don't worry laxmi. all good things happened to me very late compared to my friends and family but they did ultimately happen. Yes it is struggle,frustration but u need to be strong to pass this phase. Whenever ur low..try to distract yourself & participate in some hobbies.
     
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