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Old 14th May 2008, 04:14 PM
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Dear ILites,

I feel like fortunate to get an eye over this site,Really I feel so happy, could not express in words,listening to various problems and at the sametime the quick and rapid solutions from the experienced and senior people here.

Hats off to indus ladies creators and the people maintaining it.

But at the same time I feel unfortunate that Y I could not be able to have a look before I got seperated from my DH, may be I would have save my marriage with your valuable advices and suggestions ,but everything is over now.

I am seperated and living alone in europe doing with my studies,Sometimes I feel very depressed and feel like I cant live any more at this stage.The most tragedy thing (every one used to say Im lucky) is that I am only daughter to my parents so I am alone in my life eventhough my parents used to take care of things but no one to share like siblings and after marriage I thought I got my partner but my fate is in a way that I had become lonely again(having parents inIndia and my DH in the same city) and I dont have cousins with whom I can Interact.I had few frnds here and evryone are busy with their own lifes even though I meet them.

So to overcome my loneliness and depression I need a help from Ilites who can spare their valuable time with me ,who r like in a free stage with whom I can trust and speak everything like a sibling.

I would be greatful if someone wants to talkto me, I will do post my mail ID then.

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Old 14th May 2008, 04:34 PM
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I can talk to you. I am not in Free stage as in you mean. But I will be more than happy to be E-sibling for you. I have siblings and I know how much it means to have them. They are like your rocks in forest, where you keep returning to each time you feel too dark to see anything. I talked my sister into second pregnancy giving same reasons that her daughter will need sibling when she grows up.

I see that you are are New-Ilite , So you wouldn't have access to send PM. It will be great idea to involve and participate in for forums. Faster you complete 50 posts number, easier it will be to communicate with other ILites.
That way you will graduate to Junior Ilite status and will have access to send Private mesage to other members.
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And dont feel lonely. We are alone only if we think so. So think that you have a sister on this side of post. Lets catch up.

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Old 14th May 2008, 05:08 PM
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Hi Riadidi,

Oh my God!!! Such a quick response,Thankyou very much for accepting me as ur sis....

I will do post my ID soon.

Waiting for some more frnds.

Dreamgirl.
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Old 14th May 2008, 06:13 PM
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Hi Dream.girl..
dont feel you are alone.. now you are a part of IL.. you can consider all the members as your friends, sisters..
you cna pass on your yahoo/gmail id details i will add you under my family group..

cheers,
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Old 14th May 2008, 10:18 PM
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Hi dreamgirl

I can understand your anguish. But believe me you will not feel lonely in this forum. I came to this forum totally shattered and got helaed so quickly.

have heart we are all there for you and Ria and Arushi are gem of a person.

Love and best wishes
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Old 15th May 2008, 10:43 AM
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hi dream girl,

please don't feel sad. we all sometimes feel lonely in another country whether married or not . so you can count on me as friend or sis , the way you feel.

take care

manju

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dear dreamgirl,
don't feel sad for what has happened!!!everyone here will try and make ur life as colourful and fresh as possible!!!!we are all here for you!!!
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Old 15th May 2008, 12:48 PM
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DG

I think appropriate way for you to communicate with other ILs will be cross your 50 posts mark . Then you will be Junior Ilite status, that will enable you to contact any ILite with Private message.

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Old 16th May 2008, 01:41 AM
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hi dreamgirl,
how r u feeling now???
hope i could be one of a friend in ur list,
be positive and happy always,there is much happier life ahead,
luv,
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Old 16th May 2008, 12:18 PM
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Hi Shashi,

Thanq
I am feeling better now.

Its was just a spell of moment when I was drained myself.

Everything is set rite to go!!!!!

hugs,
dg.
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