Single Moms remarriage questions?

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Yes have seen such things happen only in love marriages...arrange marriage is almost impossible...you get only either divorcess or single dads...no umarried guys..

 

IMO single mums don't "have to compromise" on anything in order to get remarried.

Each of the remarried women I know are strong, delightful individuals who didn't get cynical because of the trauma they've been through. Nor did they bow down to the societal pressures of looking at themselves as being inferior to anyone because of their situation. They held their head high and went about their business while taking care of their child. They happened to meet wonderful single, never-married before men and married them after a courtship period.

 

• Is it possible in our Indian society for a single mom to find a man and get remarried Yes, of course. There are lot of marriages take place these days in such conditions.
• Will ONLY single dads approach for marriage?

There is no such rules / practices in place. Most of the second marriages are happening with another divorcee/ widower. High number is because of the ''lack of confidence' in searching for a never married partner. Risk factor of a marriage with divorcee is high, unless we clearly know the reason for failure of their first marriage. Significant amount of marriages fails because of the mental disorder of a partner. It is very difficult to identify such characteristics of a person. They look perfect gentlemen in their professional /social life. We realize their mental disorder only when start to live together with him. In such case we risk not only our life, but also our kid's life. So be careful. 50% of the second marriages i know are in this situation.

• Will never married guys marry a single mom? Yes.Of course, There are many cases in which i know, guy was never married. Such marriages may be easier, if the ''single mom'' is good looking , well qualified and financially sound OR from a known circle / relatives etc.
• Should a single mom get remarried when her baby is very young (an infant) OR when the baby becomes old enough to understand? It might be easier for the kid to accept new father, when he is young. It is difficult for the grown up children to accept a new person in their life. Earlier the better. A second child from the second marriage may help to strengthen the bond between the kids.

 

How is getting remarried to a single dad considered a "compromise" when one has a kid herself ?

And what is the advantage of getting a "Never married guy " ?

 

what is wrong with divorced guy or single dad with kid ? stigma, stigma, stigma.

 

Hammer, Nail, Head.
Nailed it.