please help me..i feel like crying ur advices are need

Don't be so upset, goldengirl14!

Let me start off by asking you what kinds of activities you participate in outside of your domestic sphere at home (e.g. work, classes, etc.). If not, then may I ask what's stopping you?

 

What about your parnts? Relatives? Can you talk to them . take your husband aside and sit with him and convey your feelings to him. Did you try that?

 

yep u shud take divorce..

 

NO... You should take some positive steps to be assertive in your relationship. Assert yourself as an individual with needs, desires and aspirations.

Take him off your mind for the time being. Focus on yourself and your happiness. Make friends, invite friends home, don't take any degrading statements from him, socialise .... and take it from there .... Divorce is an extreme step.

 

Taking divorce or not - both are options available to you. But not sure that we as strangers (knowing 5 sentences about you based on your OP) can make categorical recommendations on divorce or not. All of us here are people who will type something online amidst other chores and log out and go to our "real lives". You should think deeply about it (your situation, H) and make your decision.

 

Hello Goldengirl14,

I agree with the last post, i think you should figure out what your likes are and then do those and include your dh in those activities also.

Aruna

 

Dear op,
Please explain in detail your situation may be we can give some good suggestions.

 

Dont wry, you can trust me. 1st you shld try better relax. Suggetions may applied according your situations. Plz express your situations.
Ratheesh