What are the options for him to marry ? mean again.

Hello Ladies, HOLD ON OKAY. So silly why do you jump to conclusions. IF I WRITE ALL DETAILS IT WILL TAKE 10 PAGES. Do you think we didnt cry or just found 1 day sick and sent her home. and now carrying on. and this is public forum and i dont want to give too many details about the girl. I wanted to know opinion as most of the ladies visit this cite on how they will consider. I WIL TRY MY BEST TO PUT ALL DETAILS. AGAIN DONT TRY TO PICK ON ONE THING AND CONCLUDE THAT AGAIN WE DID SOMETHING WRONG. and we are in no hurry just wanted to know the options.
COMMON SHOULDNT WE THINK WHATS HIS FUTURE AND OPTIONS.

yes we did everything, my bro spent 1 lakh so far, many times stayed with her and consoled her saying she will be fine. first we thought it can be cured and she was in our house only. her mom also stayed in our house FOR 15 DAYS AND KEEP INSISTING SHE IS TIRED AND FOOD WHICH MY MOM COOKED IS NOT SUITABLE TO HER AND IMAGINE IT HAPPENED 2ND MONTH OF MARRIAGE. the time when couple spend time and plan for honeymoon. he was going rounds of hospitals doing checkups.

to tell from firts SHE CAME HOME. ALWAYS SAID I AM TIRED would wake up at 11:00 am thought she is extremenly lazy. for 2 weeks she was fine atleast walking came outside for shoping but again always said i am tired and would SLEEP SLEEP SLEEP.
then started complaining abt the sickness and pains. Took her to doctors continous 1 week to a famliy doc. than again no beter so WE TOOK HER TO SPECIALITY HOSPITALS AND MADE ALL CHECK UPS. in this process she used to tell her mom abt going hospital.

YOU KNOW WHAT HER MOM USED TO SAY,,,NEW PLACE AND SHE NOT USED TO YOUR COOKING HABITS AS U FROM DIFFERENT STATE, SO WITHOUT EATING SHE IS WEAK. SHE HAS NO SICKNESS. COOK SO AND SO FOR HER, take her outside.

we were planning to send them honey moon, leave abt that she was not able to go for a day out. one visit sent her to mom house in flight, she came back in 2 days in flight and for flight journey also she complained tired and slept for 2 days. we only thought she is probably week and lazy. and used to get shock how come one person be so tired. SO IT WAS NOT TIRED BUT SHE WAS SICK AND HAD NO STAMINA AND PROBABLY HAD PAINS INSIDE.

again after week she got more sick. we asked her mom to come and stay in our house so the daughter also feel good. she came stayed and say NOTHING SHE WIL BE FINE, AND HER MOM NO WAY INTERESTED TO GO2 HOSPITAL. she stayed 15 days and infront of her my brother made all checkups and diagnosed her sickness in advanced state. THEY WOULD GO SEPARATELY AND TALK TO DOC and not infront of my brother. and once he heard she mentioned 2 yrs back also once she got sick.

WE HAVE NO IDEA IF THEY WERE AWARE OF HER SICKNESS OR NOT. BUT YES SHE USED TO BE A SICK PERSON AND THEY NEVER SHOWED HER TO SPECIALIST DOCTORS THATS WHY they didnt know.

SO HER TREATMENT STARTED BUT her mom said we definetely want to take her back coz she cannot stay in our house or city leaving their own family. they asked my bro to give money and want to do treatment in their city. we all cried, consoled her told her she will be fine, and sent her.

WE TREATED HER LIKE ANGEL AS WE WANT THIS MARRIAGE TO BE HAPPY. SHE WAS ALSO EXTREMELY HAPPY AND SAID it was her luck to get our family. BUT SEE GOD IS SO STRANGE TO MAKE HER GET THIS.
we cried for her a lot having sleepless nights.

first we thought yes she has health issue but can be cured. my bro told her before marriage that he loves kids and want to start famliy but seeing her sick once he talked abt kids AND HE SAID KIDS NOT IMP FOR ME MY WIFE, IF HER HEALTH DOESNT PERMIT I WILL JUST ADOPT and we supported him and gave him encouragement saying there are surrogacy options too. wife more imporrtant take care of her

BUT NOTHING IT HAPPENED QUICK FAST AS SHE WAS NOT IN EARLY STAGE BUT ADVANCED STAGE. I STILL WONDER OPEN HER PICS AND SEE 6 MONTHS BACK THIS LADY SO NICE AND NORMAL. but today she is on hospital bed.

THERE IS NOTHING LEFT WE DIDNT DO TO MAKE THIS HAPPEN. we hoped even recently she will be fine but no there is no way.

 

WOW I WONDER now a days kids start talking about sharing properties seeing their old sick parents. and now here there is 3 months marriage with no relation at all. and people want the poor guy to sit and mourn without thinking about his future.

 

I HAVE READ POSTS ABOUT SOME GREAT LADIES WHO HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 12-15 YRS AND HAVE 2 KIDS ABOVE 5 YRS AGE. Have complaint on husbands that he didnt give value to their love etc etc and now there is a new guy they found who is interested.

They want to marry this new guy.
AND I AM TALKING ABT A GUY WHO HADNT HAD EVEN 3 MONTHS OF MARRIAGE LIFE AND PEOPLE SUGGEST HIM TO KEEP TAKING CARE OF HIS WIFE AND KEEP MOURNING.

OKAY IF HE BECOMES HER NURSE , WHO WILL DO JOB AND PAY HER HOSPITAL BILLS. she using his insurance card only for treatment.

 

Hello Indusladies.

how can i delete my thread. i looked here for suggestion BUT PEOPLE IN THIS SITE ARE READY TO CRITICIZE , JUDGE PEOPLE AND CURSE PEOPLE.

I hoped for some support but became more stressful reading the responses and how bad this world is.

I want to delete this thread for my peace of mind.

 

he would have done same if he had money to take her abroad and if her mom allowed him to do.
her mom didnt allow her daughter to stay in our house and took her away saying she want to do in her own city.
what can we do.