Need advise for a frnd

Its actually late to react. Ask your friend to follow these steps one after other as escalation. You need to create evidences before she jumps the gun. No harm wife searching for a husband and it should not hurt anyone and nothing she should not be afraid of. But, I dont think he is interested in living with her. Ask her to stop the love drama and act practically without wasting time.

1) Write a email to husband email id asking his whereabouts.

2) to go and talk to the HR of the company saying that she is the wife and he has not contacted her so far. If possible, write a email or a letter and handover to HR. Make sure she entries her visit in the VIsitor entry register of the office.

3) Take couple of your relatives along with her parents to in-laws house surprisingly and request his whereabouts.

4)File a complaint in the local police station that son is hiding since marriage and all his family members hiding his whereabouts.

5) File a Domestic violence complaint against son and MIL that MIL hides son's information. The son will jump out of his shell.

6)None of these working, file a divorce based on desertion and send it to the MIL's home.

 

Hi Friends. The fact that she has been abandoned for a yr now is reason enough to part away. A person who takes wife for granted like this is not worth being a husband. The girl simply should call police and make a dowry case and get rid of all this asap. She is really the sufferer so lets act on this quick and protect her. if she gets into reality check then this will take her forever.

 

one year is simply too much.

Another one year of separation and no contacts will lead to eligibility of divorce under decree of desertion.

It's up to you to decide. He would have spoke to you if he loves you. Never had a contact? Are you kidding?

Either give a compliant or wait for one more year and file a divorce. A guy who never spoke to you for a year is not worthy fella to live with.

 

Hi omnam,

As she is under stress she is unable to think in right direction.
Mine is almost a similar case but he did not get absconded but never called me nor gave a reply to my calls.

Try to find out the reason why he is behaving this way and take necessary steps.

 

Most of them suggesting to file dowry case and DV cases are not very pratical and doesnt answer the wife's problem. By filing dowry & DV case you can put him parent beyond bar for couple of days and its end of marriage. You cant even put him behind bar as he would come after getting bail. If that is what wife wants good enough. You cant locate a person in abroad. Either they are looking for something from you or looking for divorce. Find out what they want by first being nice to them. Then decide what you need to do.

 

why is he absconding.. sounds very fishy.. is he running away from law??.. its best to do a police complaint before taking anyother steps..
anyways the whole thing sounds bizzare

 

The girl should be able to answer certain things about her husband than any of us here. So, please ask her the following before proceeding with anything.

1- Hows her husband with her while they were newly married during those 2 months?
2- How was their marriage life? Was that consummated?
3- How was her in laws while they were still together?
4- Why did he fled to the US? Fled as a refugee or went to the US with work permit?
5- Which company does he work in the US?
6- Has he never had friends or he recently abscond from everything?
7- Any dowry or marriage related unsolved issues?
8- Any fights between the couples? Such as his past/wife's past, suspicion etc..etc..
9- Any EMA involved?

Just check with her in detail. One can not simply flee to US, and abscond everything just like that. It is fishy. Without details, we can't move on. Any irrelevant move would cause serious harm here. So, stay cautious.

 

omnam tell her not to fall into his trap...he will come down to india if he wants to make this marriage work..