Trying to patch up with Husband

Dear Priya,
I have read through your posts and all replies. I appreciate your efforts.

But i feel you do not have to try so hard. Did you read all the replies carefully? Like Ria (read the third para) and Coolmommy said ,you should give him some time, that is very important, stop mailing and seeing him for a few months. Why don't you try it?

This will give him some time to think about it and heal. Probably he will start missing your emails and calls and he may even try to reach you eventually. Meanwhile you concentrate on your career. If not ,you are going to loose both, your career and family. It's in your hand. Initially it would be difficult no to mail, try for a day, then for two days and then for a week. Try to stick with the plan. Try not to plan any meetings.

So stop trying and concentrate on your career and on-site opportunity.

Best wishes, things will change and you will be happy again Priya.

Cheerful

Many thanks for ur reply cheerful.

Ya i read all the replies.Especially Ria,coolmommy,drjp and capricorn.
As per their advice i sent a mail,after that dint try to contact him.

Ria sounds like more than my psychiatrist.She asked me lots of questions ,that made my email meaningful which i sent to him.I owe a lot to her.. Hats of to Ria.

Now i feel that have given enough time to him already year got over.After seperation for the first 6 months v dint make any attempt to contact him.After through his relatives and friends v did.It made both of us to think, but nothing worked out.
Realized tht have to work out a lot within myself first.Still am trying to figure out.

As u said ,have started concentrating on career.Whatz the use of cribbing about the past.

Dear il'tes many thanks for ur pain to read my posts and replies

Cheers,
Priya

Hello Priya,

You are always welcome. I am glad to see you contemplating on yourself rather than anything else.
We owe biggest duty to our ownselves. We need to make sure, we dont undestimate our live and risk them for anything unpleasent. Just because one dream gets shattered in some way, That doesnt mean life should take a dig.

All the best
Ria

Dear Ria,
Thanks a lot for ur reply and wishes.
As u said i analysed my situation and gonna concentrate on career and other stuffs.



Cheers,
Priya

Originally Posted by ria2006

Hello Priya,

You are always welcome. I am glad to see you contemplating on yourself rather than anything else.
We owe biggest duty to our ownselves. We need to make sure, we dont undestimate our live and risk them for anything unpleasent. Just because one dream gets shattered in some way, That doesnt mean life should take a dig.

All the best
Ria

Dear All

No matter how big the problem rememebr these words ;
"This too shall pass ".
No emotion is permanent whether it is joy or grief.

What seems very important to us today may well fade into insignificance a year down the line.Human beings are more resilient that we know .

Regards.

hi rajpriya'

u seem to be very sensitive ,seems for a small issue u have taken poison.that might have hurt u r husband(That does'nt mean u have to try it for a big issue,it's stupidity). now is that u have realised ur fault henceforth be strong.o.k .
Anyways don't keep on pleading or keep on asking him sorry.give him some time to think,what went wrong at that particular period,which made u take poison.let him know that u r sensitive,and feeling bad for the separation.if u keep quite for sometime(not a long period) may be he'l sympathise u .If u have any common friend,let the person talk about the issue to him.
surely he'l comeback to you,maybe he's teaching u a lesson so that u never commit the mistake again over a silly issue.God bless you