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Old 22nd February 2008, 09:00 AM
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Hi Induskr

Good to know that you are moving on.
Wishing you all the best for happier life.
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Old 22nd February 2008, 09:09 AM
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Ansh!! You are so sweeeeet!! Thanks

And I wish the same for you too.
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Old 22nd February 2008, 09:17 AM
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Way to Go Induskr. We all r happy for u.
Definitely "Failure is a stepping stone to success" so ur past bad experience will give u a way to a happy & wonderful future.

All the very best.

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Old 22nd February 2008, 09:37 AM
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Hello Induskr,
Sometimes we need some special surprises in our life.
We are all very happy for you that you are moving forward in life.


Regards.
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Old 22nd February 2008, 09:59 AM
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Hi Induskr,
Felt happy that you are moving on with ur life now....and the bitter moments of ur life is fading away .......making the way for better moments............
wishing you a very happy life...........
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Induskr
I am very happy for you, enjoy the days of dating..... they are wonderful indeed ;)

You are absolutely right about making your own choices; Mine is a love marriage that went very bad (you know part of my story) , however, I do not have any bitter feelings agaist anybody (Including my husband). For a few days I felt betrayed, but now I am over it and picking up life. I guess, I could do it so quickly because the marriage was my choice....very much agree with you.
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Old 22nd February 2008, 10:14 AM
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Hi Drjp

You really a strong woman ,as you don't harbour bitter feelings for anyone.

Mine was totally arranged marriage and I had my own idea about my marriage which including to be just one man's woman. I just adored this man and wanted him to understand me and wanted to reconcile, so waited for 6 years.I did feel lot of guilt when I developed softcorner for this friend,as I felt that I am going weak somewhere.

But, now, I have understood its not a weakness.

I wish, all my buddies(eparated and widowed) will have the strength to come out of the difficult phase ad will be able to lead a meaningful life, either alone and with a partner if they are aspiring for one.

May GOD bless u all.

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I am very happy for you, enjoy the days of dating..... they are wonderful indeed ;)

You are absolutely right about making your own choices; Mine is a love marriage that went very bad (you know part of my story) , however, I do not have any bitter feelings agaist anybody (Including my husband). For a few days I felt betrayed, but now I am over it and picking up life. I guess, I could do it so quickly because the marriage was my choice....very much agree with you.
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Old 22nd February 2008, 10:26 AM
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hi,

the title you have given to this thread or it would be more prompt if i say to "your life" is really touching.

it made all of us realize the deadliness in your past life in spite of not mentioning your bitter experiences.

i wish all the success and pray God to give you more happiness.

this hour, i have posted a new message under "Sai Inspires" which is a coincident and a message for you from God.

i am attaching the message.
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Wow wonderful beginning,..

Something which makes you feel right is most likely the right thing in life. Problem happens when we try to set things right, which dont make us feel right. Feelings are facts, accept them. Thats what I am reading in my current book.

I can imagine your happiness and liveliness. There is nothing wrong and guilt worthy in being made to feel womanly. Thats what nature wanted , right! So revel in the being. You have travelled a long and dry patch of desert in life. This is the spring you deserve by every reason. I revel in your happiness. May life be a smoother and picturseque journey for you from here on.

My dad always says one thing, God gave us eyes in front for a reason. He doesnot want us to look in past. He wants us to move forward whatever be the situation.

Here is to you and your happiness.

Author: Liz Stainton

Lost in a blinding hot shower of stars
My world has contracted to fit in your arms
Enveloped in you and I cannot be saved
As my heart leaps towards you, bound by its cage
Every last nerve ending searing with fire
As my conscience is slowly consumed by desire
The taste of your lips and the scent of your skin
Where love and the rest of my life will begin
And as my last defences collapse at your feet
I surrender myself in becoming complete.

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Old 22nd February 2008, 06:30 PM
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As always, well said Ria.

Your words as well as poem are really beautiful.


Best wishes
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