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View Poll Results: What is your worst insecurity after separation from partner?
Who will look after children in case of an eventuality? 6 33.33%
How to arrange and manage finances? 4 22.22%
Problems in marrying the children(in case you r a divorcee)? 2 11.11%
Effect the separation on psychic of children 4 22.22%
Fulfillment of your responsibilities as both parents for your child 6 33.33%
Perception of society towards you 3 16.67%
Any other 3 16.67%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 18. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 6th February 2008, 04:30 AM
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Default Vote and share your views on what is your worst insecurity after separation?

Hi ILites

Separation is always sad and painful whether from parents, from children when they grow up, friends or from spouse, whether because of death, desertion or divorce.

It is said that the part that rots should be removed, true, but the scars remain, a sense of incompleteness sets in. One learns to live without that part, learns to laugh and enjoy, tries to find meaning of life, as the beauty of life is that it moves on, whether one likes or not. But, somewhere deep inside one is fighing with the insecurities, that comes from the loss of that part. I invite all of you who are leading the life after seprartion from partner to respond to the poll regarding the following issue

"What is your worst insecurity?"

Looking forward to your participation.
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Default Re: Hi All-looking forward to your participation

Great Thread Ansh,

I loved your wording. Very Apt.


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Default Re: Hi All-looking forward to your participation

Hi Ansh,

I voted even though I'm not separated. Its just that this is one of my biggest fears - what will happen to my baby if something happens to me while she's still a child...

I see a lot of votes in there, so I guess a lot of women did vote...would love to know why they have chosen what they did...

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Default Re: Hi All-looking forward to your participation

Hi Ria and Arushi

Thanks for taking the poll and posting in this thread.

I would also like to know, why do thay have these insecurities and how they overcome.

Hope to have a good discussion on this.I wish SS would have commented somewhere. She analyses every situation so minutely

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