What's the reason behind not to take babies outside home in the evening?

Thank you dear..

First time when that guy told I ignored it. He repeated again n I told "My kid, My rules". Then he kept quiet. Ignoring alone is not enough these days..

I used to see if there is enough sunlight then only I go by walk. Or else I will keep quiet. I'm in in-laws place n here the sun sets by 6.30 or 6.45. So I took him out by 6 thinking I can return before 6.30.

My son had colic like cry in the second month. We used to give a liquid called karam (vasambu, jadhikkai, etc. etc. diluted in hot water) and it didn't suit him so he cried in the evening continuously for 3 hours. Once we stopped giving this, he is fine.

Now the reason behind his crying is he is bored.. He won't cry continuously like in pain n all. If you show him a rattle, for 2 mins he will see n enjoy. After that he wants some other rattle or something else to divert. In the daytime, if we show a single rattle even for 15 mins, he will see n enjoy. But during evening, a big NOOOO...

I am giving gripe water daily in the evening so that if there is any stomach pain, it will get cured.

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Thanks for the reply Rakhii.

Yes, I am also giving gripe water. He will be quiet for 10-15 mins n after that he will start crying.. He loves to go out n see new things. If he cries n the second I step out of the house, he will become quiet. So I thought of diverting him by taking out.

 

Thanks for the reply Sparkle..

Yeah, when I am at mom's place, I used to carry him n go around the house. I even show him things like this is mixie n we grind chutney, coarse poweder, make juices, etc in this machine.. I forgot to do this at in-laws place. Will try it out tomorrow.

I read board books (flowers, birds, animals, fruits) to him. I'm not good at singing songs so MIL is taking care of that part.. ;-)

Everyday routine - He is almost settled with a routine but the problem is only at the evenings.. Will take him out early n let me be ready to entertain him in the evening.

 

Thanks for the reply GG.

The locality is not much brighter or not much darker n its safe. I'll better go out early as others suggested n entertain him by some other means after 6 pm.

 

Thanks for dropping by.

I'll better go out early n entertain him at home after 6 pm.