Hi Supriya,
I suggest you carry mixer grinder, flat bottom utensils(few as per your cooking needs), pressure cooker, idli mould with you if you can carry. Grinders, pressurecookers, utensils, books are expensive here.
You get 40 kgs baggage allowance one way if you are immigrating from Quatas airways. Also if you still need to ship some utensils, clothes, books, use DHL good service door to door.
U get all spices, creams, pressure cookers, grinders, DVD in Indian supermarkets. I have seen saree shops and salwaars shops. I would suggest just carry or ship stuff thats essential. You get the everything here(pricey)

but better than the shipping hassles.