I confess I have cheated on my Husband

Hi everyone,

I am new here, My Name is Nisha and i am a bored housewife from melb.
I live in the south east surburbs and would like to make friends with other Indian housewives.

i am 28, been married to a lovely man and moved to melbourne for him. I have been living here for nearly 2 years and i'm so bored, my husband is always working, and with his job he travels a lot.. i am new and dont have any friends. I surf the interneta lot.. and stumbled upon this website, and i would like to vent out somthing which is bothering me a lot..

recently, i met a man during the day at my local coffee shop, and we started chatting and before i knew we ended up sleeping together..

I know its wrong, but was wondering there must be a few who have done this.. i would like to talk to the ones that have cheated before and how did they manage to keep it a secret.

thanks,
Nisha

P.S. please dont judge me for this.. i have had my reasons to do what i did!

Cheating isnt something that should be kept a secret, how would u like it if ur husband cheated on u, i suggest u tell him.

my suggestion is you can do part time job there to reduce boreing and also you can read good magazines / books at home.

Take care
Kanak

I will come back later with my post.. but wanted to say something u asked for. I love Bob marley, he's such an awesome guy. A line from one of his creations:

We know when we understand:
Almighty God is a living man.
You can fool some people sometimes,
But you cant fool all the people all the time.

Laterz.

Hey Nisha,
R u an Indian staying in Australia??? Y dont you find a job to spend time.
I am in India but have applied for migration to Australia...U know what even I have cheated my husband in India. I have slept with one of my old friends many a times. And after that I feel like sleeping with my old boy friend now. He is inviting me for that. Its very tempting but somehow trying to control myself. I have still maintained as a secret from everyone.
I dont think u should tell this to ur husband. If u wanna continue ur relationship with the other man and leave ur husband, then tell him and take a divorce.
Rose

Hello Nisha,I am living in western suburb of melbourne.If u feel boring,there are so many ways u can find to time pass.U can find many friends who is living in melbourne through indusladies.U can make friendship and chat with them.If u can able to go for work,u may find any job here.In your view,it might happen one time because of your loneliness and boring.Dont think about that again.Here after,find some friends here and forget the past.spend ur future in the good way.If u wish,U can be my friend.bye

Hey nisha!!!!!!!!!!!!
I saw the same story before 3 m onths in IL.
I think u came with another user name now.
What u did is wrong?
But dont tekll to your husband!forget it & please dont repeat it.

Hi Nisha

Now that you have confessed to us on IndusLite.com I think this way you are given a chance to put your life back on to the right path.

Whoever this lovely man is I think he is just utilising you and abusing you of your ignorance and loneliness...so be careful 100%, you will end up in deep pit if you continue this without having any other intension NOR knowing his intensions in long run

If your husband is a big mistake to you, please choose the righteous way to confess to him and let him know that you wish to divorce him for someone else , rather than he find it out himself. Better he knows about your bold decision than make him feel betrayed.

Apart from all these do you ever know the intensions of your this new friend..

In simple words stop playing around two other men Plus one yourself = 3 lives.

If you say it was just a fling and totally a mistake for having done this, its good at least now you felt so and once you have felt that way take the courage to get get out of this temporary fling and not spoil your wonderful marriage and a loving husband. U can SAVE YOUR SHIP only if you think to do it , none of us can do it for you. BETTER ACT BEFORE ITS TOO LATE.

Kick that fling out and have a nice bath of all your infactuations and emotions, get rid of all that as a bad past , get on with a fresh start.

IF YOUR HUSBAND WORKED A LOT, I THINK ITS FOR YOUR AND HIM. AND IF YOU DONT LIKE THIS ASPECT LET HIM KNOW, TAKE IT FROM THERE, NOT JUST BY MAKING IT AN EXCUSE.

REMEMBER THE FAMOUS QUOTE “There are no mistakes or failures, only lessons"

Originally Posted by frustratednisha

Hi everyone,

I am new here, My Name is Nisha and i am a bored housewife from melb.
I live in the south east surburbs and would like to make friends with other Indian housewives.

i am 28, been married to a lovely man and moved to melbourne for him. I have been living here for nearly 2 years and i'm so bored, my husband is always working, and with his job he travels a lot.. i am new and dont have any friends. I surf the interneta lot.. and stumbled upon this website, and i would like to vent out somthing which is bothering me a lot..

recently, i met a man during the day at my local coffee shop, and we started chatting and before i knew we ended up sleeping together..

I know its wrong, but was wondering there must be a few who have done this.. i would like to talk to the ones that have cheated before and how did they manage to keep it a secret.

thanks,
Nisha

P.S. please dont judge me for this.. i have had my reasons to do what i did!