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| Hi pavithra, Thank u so much for sharing such a valuable info. with us...Its really an eye opener for first time moms to be like me...We are brought up in sucha way that, we feel shy to ask to our mom and even our moms feel uncomfortable to freely talk abt these things...So , we just gather tit bits of info and go to the hospital, even there we might not be told whats happening around us and what is being done or to be done...So this anxiety, fear, doubts, worries, pain everything gets piled up and worsens our mental and physical condn... Though all those info that info was something new and scary for me, i hope i can get prepared mentally for the day... Thanks once again.. |
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| Hello again Pavithra, Thanks for such an elaborate post on your labor class. I have a few questions: 1. Did they give you some tips on breathing techniques? Many of my friends said that it was the most useful part of the class, and that it helped them relax during labor. 2. Would you say this class was useful? Would you recommend it to your friends? 3. Did the class scare you in any way? Sometimes, not knowing about certain things will make the rest of our pregnancy peaceful. One of my friends said that they showed a video of labor which got her very scared. Is it true that this class might psych us if we are not mentally prepared for labor? Please give your suggestions. I am in double mind as to whether to take it or not. My doc said its not absolutely necessary but that it will help to take it. Thanks again for explaining everything in detail. Take care.
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| hi geetha , sorry to drop in but just wanna clear the doubts u have put forth ...i am a mom to a toddler and my exp with child birth class was gr8 ...it really helped me to prepare for the upcoming labor process ....yes the video will def freak u out ...but it also helps u to know what to expect in the labor room.....the breathing and relaxing techniques will help u too when u r in actual labor i will def recommend u to go ahead and take it ...also plan to take hospital tour. thanks manju |
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| Hi geetha, In this labor class they didnt show any video of labor, but she did show the instruments that will be used in case of epsiotomy and also if we take epidurals, thye would have to break membranes for which the instrument she showed. I didnt get frightened on the other hand I am bit cool now becoz the explanation made me feel that I would surely know when the d-day comes :) I do understand what you mean, yes sometimes ignorance is bliss. But being in a foreign land, its better to know certain things in case of emergency. Also it would take some of our unnecessary fears and as they say pain has two parts: one is the actual pain and other is our reaction to it. We would not be in a position to say how we would react that time, but atleast such classes would definitely help in reducing the early fears. |
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| Sorry missed out to mention that in this class they didnt say anything of breathing techniques. I have heard that in UK and US, they are classes where they teach breathing techniques. |
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| Thank you Pavithra for such a useful thread. In India I don't think all hospitals explain procedures in such detail but my doctor in Bangalore had explained me a day before the delivery (she said my cervix was already dilated 2 cms on Monday.. i delivered the next day) how to breathe, when to rush to hospital etc., Your post is very detailed and valuable reference point. Geetha: In germany the birth-preparatory class also includes breathing techniques and one can always ask the midwife any additional doubts to be clarified. I suppose it's the same everywhere. If you think you'll be scared by the videos I'd recommed you borrow a book on pregnancy from your local library and have a look at the pictures first (this is what I did). In a way these videos prepare you for the real pain that you'll endure in labor. Do think about it:) Latha |
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| it's 10 minutes to mid-night Pavithra:) mondays are always bad coz my son is all excited with his appa around in week-end and he loses his routine first day of the week. we both slept blissfully from 3-5.30 and now i'm sitting like a boodham ![]() |
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| hehehe. Here its 5 mins to 2 am so I am a big bootham :) You have your son to keep u busy :) my husband had a hectic day and he slept early and I am like walking inside the house counting the square metres of the house :) Tomorrow morning have to wake up by 7 atleast as he has early meetings. I shall now try to get some sleep. Good night to you and your son :) See you tomm |
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